Face the Sunlight, and There Will Be No Shadows
You are too focused on yourself while also overly concerned with others' opinions. You are so frightened by the apparent strength of others that you become bewildered and start to doubt yourself. You don't express your opinions, even when you have foresight, and you never dare to take the first step to test your ideas. You are being knocked down step by step by yourself, starting from the day you begin to make excuses for your retreat. You've begun to appear like someone others don't respect.
Sometimes, persisting in the things you most don't want to do can lead you to obtain what you most desire.
A mature relationship between two people should be like this: lower your expectations of each other, believe that they can handle their own affairs, and you are simply a supporter and companion. Their path must always be walked by them alone. Despite their differences, they can celebrate these differences and achieve mutual benefit and win-win cooperation; they can also separately travel to pursue their dreams and become their true selves.
Face the sun, and there will be no shadows.
Life is a practice, cultivating patience, perseverance, and a calm mindset. If you can endure great losses and see beautiful things fade with the passage of time and life, and if you can still maintain creativity and love in such reality, then we are truly strong. As Romain Roland said, 'There is only one heroism, which is to continue to love life after recognizing the truth of life.'
You always procrastinate things until tomorrow. You can't keep doing this. One day, there will be many things you need to do. Your lifetime won't be long enough.
You should be a person who acts silently and doesn't show emotion. Don't secretly miss anyone, and don't look back. Go through your own life. Be obedient – not all fish live in the same sea.——Haruki Murakami
Time is short, and the distance is vast. In the future, one mountain and one river, one day or one night, walk quietly on your own. If you get lost and fall into the water, remember that there is a river called rebirth. In this world, any place can grow; any destination is a home. So, don't come looking for me; I won't go to find you. Guard the remaining years, and enjoy a peaceful life in the present.
Give every annoyance a deadline. Solve it to the best of your ability within a limited time, and give the rest back to your happy self.
Some people say 'I love you' repeatedly, but it doesn't necessarily mean it's true; some people may seem indifferent to you, but you don't know how many times he's suppressed the urge to contact you.
