Whomever You Rely On, You'll Be Disappointed
Some say the greatest benefactor in life is yourself.
Others may help you, but not necessarily out of goodwill. Even relatives and friends don't owe you any help; they simply offer assistance on a purely emotional basis.
When a person falls, don't wait for others to lift them up; instead, struggle to stand up yourself. Your effort will trigger the goodwill of others, prompting them to extend a helping hand. If you don't want to stand up yourself, good people will simply walk by.
Remember: rely on yourself, and you'll be disappointed. At your lowest, you must endure.
'Depend on parents', parents will gradually grow old and eventually need you to take care of them. 'Depend on friends', friends are scarce when you're poor.
Friend Liu Zhi said: 'There are not many relatives and friends in life. When you are poor, it's rare to see them.' Liu Zhi's supermarket in the county town was flooded last year, causing losses of over a million. He borrowed money everywhere to rebuild it, but each time he was rejected.
Later, Liu Zhi mortgaged the supermarket's property to the bank and obtained a loan to rebuild it. Now he has learned to rely on himself, regardless of the difficulties he faces, he doesn't complain to relatives and friends, nor does he ask for loans.
A person can be poorer, but never lose their dignity. When you beg for help, and no one responds, it's a miserable situation. It's humiliating to beg for help.
'Depend on children', grandchildren have their own fortunes, and parents must manage their generation.
Many people say: 'I'm trying hard to support my children's education, and in the future, my children will find good jobs and settle in big cities, I can also enjoy the benefits.' Have you ever considered this?
Now, you have invested a lot of energy and money for your children's education, you shouldn't expect a return. 'Children come to claim their debts.' You owe them too much, so this is your repayment.
As children, they should be filial to you, but they must also have the ability to be filial. If you put all your hopes on them, you will likely be disappointed. Hope is good, but reality is cruel.
Grandchildren have their own fortunes, and parents must manage their generation.
Some say: 'Crying children are given sugar.' But reality tells you that if you're down and out, crying won't help. You must dry your tears and become a 'tearful runner'.
This lifetime, your greatest support is yourself.
Author: Poor Farmer.
Follow my text, enter your soul.
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