Love is not about demanding, it's about understanding and tolerance.
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Small Qi is my friend, she just got married and complained to me that her mother-in-law wasn't good, never buying fruit, and Small Qi buying fruit, she would eat it non-stop, not leaving any for Small Qi. She also always cooked vegetables, couldn't cook the dishes Small Qi wanted, and once even made a pot of sweet rice noodles for Small Qi to eat. Worse still, one time Small Qi took a bath in winter, her mother-in-law turned off the hot water. Hearing this, I was all shocked! There are so many terrible mother-in-laws in life!
Before, I always heard people say that their mother-in-law didn't get along with them, and there were often quarrels between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law. This topic is widely discussed.
But such a terrible mother-in-law seems to only exist in television dramas. In reality, it's rare to encounter them. Small Qi said I was too naive and thought everyone was good.
Is it really true that people's interactions shouldn't be too perfect?
I once saw a saying: respect is mutual. If you respect others, others will also respect you.
From this, we can easily think: love is mutual. If you are good to others, others will also be good to you.
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Small Jun is known for being good to his wife. He always delivers her to and from work on time and cooks for her. We all know that Small Jun's wife is sick, and if it were someone else, they would simply abandon their wife. But Small Jun insisted on taking care of his wife, without complaint or regret. He even happily fulfilled his role as the husband.
We were all curious about where Small Jun's courage came from, facing the loss of his working ability, he still insisted on taking care of his wife.
At that gathering, Small Jun told us the story of him and his wife.
Before Small Jun and his wife got married, his wife wasn't sick and was very healthy. She was very good to Small Jun, who was still unemployed and had no status. She never asked for extravagant things and willingly took on the role of the woman behind Small Jun.
Later, with the effort of Small Jun and his wife, Small Jun found a decent job, and they officially entered the marriage. After marriage, they lived happily ever after, never arguing or quarreeling with each other.
In this way, they welcomed their first child. Perhaps the sudden arrival of the child made Small Jun's wife feel confused. She suffered from postpartum depression and almost committed suicide several times, but Small Jun rescued her from the clutches of death. Small Jun began to focus all his attention on his wife, taking her to see a doctor and giving her more love to dispel her sadness.
Reading to this point, I was moved by this man. At the same time, I admired Small Jun's wife. She was kind and smart. As a woman, she was a good woman; as a wife, she was lucky.
Small Jun finished telling his story and continued to say, 'If it weren't for his wife's previous love and tolerance, he wouldn't have such deep love and appreciation for her. Conversely, he and his wife would have had a different life.'
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Not long ago, I watched a movie called 'Galaxy Remedial Class'. The story is mainly about how a father who failed in his business career successfully transformed his son from a naughty child through his unique teaching method. This movie shocked me and almost overturned my traditional views on education. In my view, good students should focus all their energy on studying and not miss a class or an exam.
In 'Galaxy Remedial Class', at the time when the exam was supposed to be held, the father left school for his child's wish, embarking on a journey to realize his wish. This made me, a 'traditional' mother, completely shocked.After careful consideration, the film is permeated with a father's love for his child. The father doesn't want his child to have regrets. He does everything for his child out of love, and this is the essence of the father's love.
He moved his child with love, taking care of his child's needs. This is the most important factor in educating his child. The child became an astronaut because he was loved by his father.
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Love sometimes is like fighting, it takes two palms to make a sound, only mutual love can give people a sense of happiness.
Whether it's the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, or the relationship between husband and wife, or parents and children, love should be based on understanding and consideration for each other, not forcing your will on others or expecting unconditional good treatment from others. That's not the true essence of love.
The true essence of love is that you should understand and consider each other, and that's the highest level of love.
