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Author | Jiang Left Mei Lang

Young men pursue dreams, middle-aged men lose dreams, old men guard dreams.

Men in middle age, successful ones always want to grasp the tail of youth, using their money and power to fulfill unfulfilled youthful dreams.

Women became the indispensable protagonists in men's various dreams.

Whether it's true love or fake love, whether it's tightly wound or loosely tied, middle-aged men always need to hold a woman.

The infidelity of 40-year-old men is not about emotions; it's about wanting to prove themselves as men, or to transform their already formulaic lives.

Dreams are easy to make, but dreams fade away, lies are hard to dispel, love is hard to attain, debts are hard to repay.

In a gentle paradise, it's hard for men to be gentle and possessive, but Mei Lang wants to remind middle-aged people that at this age, don't be in love with these four types of women.

01 Irresponsible Women

Every capricious woman may have a tragic story. After tragedy, indulgence, and then indifference, this is the common trajectory of flirtatious women.

'It's hard to find a priceless treasure, but hard to find a sincere man,'They've experienced too many men's sweet words and false promises, so they don't trust love; they say 'brother,' 'husband,' 'dear,' but they're worried about how much money you have in your pocket.

Love is just a chip they use to trade with. How deep love is depends on how much money you pay her, how many digits are in the transfer amount.

In the Ming Dynasty, Prince Yuan fell in love with a female singer, and he built a fragrant sandalwood bed for her. Just as the singer came to visit again, he didn't recognize him, so Yuan told her his name again and said he brought a ship full of gifts for her. The singer redecorated and received him.

A fragrant sandalwood bed, luxurious clothing, gold and silver treasures filled the front hall. The singer was happy and envied by her sisters. Yuan pointed at her and cursed: 'I thought that men in the Qingchao were romantic, but not even a month, you don't even remember who I am!'

Yuan smashed the sandalwood bed and broke his fantasies of flirtatious women, and he also warned those men who were obsessed with flirtatious women. It's a fool's thing to waste money on them.

Flowers bloom and fade, and eventually return to silence. Mei Lang advises middle-aged men who think they have irresistible charm and can change a flirtatious woman's life – cover your money, stay away from smoke and mirrors, and avoid flirtatious women.

02 Office Colleagues

It's not unreasonable for rabbits not to eat grass beside their nests.

A love affair in the office failed, the lover didn't work out, even colleagues couldn't work out.

The two of them enter and exit the same unit, even the same office, their gazes can't meet, how awkward! Moreover, this relationship is not glamorous.

Don't enjoy being cooped up, don't look at each other's ambiguous gazes, don't assume that only you two understand your unspoken words.

Two or three years of pain, a lifetime of suffering!

Imagine what would happen if the matter was exposed, how miserable your situation would be!

Returning home is not peaceful, and going to the unit is like being stuck in a needle.

Colleagues' teasing eyes and sarcastic words make you want to lock your office desk with a courtyard wall.

So Mei Lang advises middle-aged men who have feelings for their female colleagues to maintain a distance, don't lose their battleground! This is not only about face but also about their careers!

03 Loving Women

Men like gentle, watery women, but when love becomes excessive, and you're drowning, are you a weak and indecisive man, or a ruthless woman who controls everything?

The infidelity of middle-aged men is often about choosing women who enjoy luxury, because successful men need someone weak to satisfy their desire for protection; and those who are unsuccessful seek comfort in these women.

If you think from the darkest perspective of human nature, Mei Lang thinks that middle-aged men choose loving women because they are docile and obedient, making them feel that they won't affect their family.

In plain words, men think that such women are weak and compliant, and they can satisfy their various desires, but they ignore the other side of these women: the strong dependence they develop because of their love and weakness.

Loving women are prone to emotional dependence and jealousy. When men mislead them by saying 'I love you more than your wife,' they're even more dissatisfied and want to prove their status.

So after a while, men will find 'It's difficult to hold,' and the most painful thing is that the one who suffers the most is the loving woman, and then the man's family.

As you can't replenish her dry heart with fine and scattered words, and you can't pay her shopping list with dwindling money, you'll find that she's no longer your paradise, and you don't want to be his walking ATM.

The most feared thing is that she'll become more and more greedy, and she'll fight with you over money, and what will you say to your wife and children?

As you grow older, don't fall in love with these four types of women, the more you fall in love, the more you lose.

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I am Mei Lang, if you have a story, I have wine, let's chat about life together, click above to follow, welcome to my world.

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