Joshua said, 'Loneliness is like a fence. You need a fence to have your own garden.'

Lonely people always close their hearts, and in front of them, there is an invisible wall, which surrounds them. Outsiders cannot come in, and they themselves do not want to go out.

Some people think that loneliness is a pleasure. If a person takes a few days to be alone, or spends a period of time in loneliness, it is enjoyable, and it is a kind of happiness away from the hustle and bustle. However, if a person is lonely for a long time, it will make life boring, and even give a feeling of having no heart.

A lonely person often has these characteristics. See if you have them. Loneliness mainly comes from the depths of the soul. Some people consider this feeling as a pleasure, and some people are afraid of this feeling.

1. Standing in the crowd, feeling like the world has forgotten about you.

A person is most lonely when he is not alone. Because when he is alone, he actively leaves the bustling crowd and lives a quiet life.

A person is most lonely when there are many people around him, but he cannot find one person to talk to, and he feels like he is forgotten by the world. Whatever he says, no one understands him, and when he opens his mouth, he just complains.

When you enter a foreign city and stand on the bustling station square, you don't see any familiar faces, nor do you see any smiling faces. Are you lonely?

A lonely person, in the more crowded places, feels more lonely, and feels like he is 'extra' people. He doesn't want to integrate into society voluntarily.

2. Spending every day with a mobile phone, but when opening the phone, mostly talking to strangers.

Lonely people look at mobile phones and watch videos for hours. Maybe he likes to talk to strangers on the internet because they are not familiar with each other, he can say whatever he wants, and he can complain. If the other person doesn't agree with him, he will stop talking, block each other, and treat it as if nothing happened.

Lonely people hold mobile phones and watch boring videos or browse articles to pass the time. He doesn't think about what he can do with the mobile phone, or what his goals are. Sometimes, he wants to chat with familiar people, but when he opens WeChat, he suddenly feels like saying everything, and he is afraid of disturbing others, and he doesn't want to say his inner thoughts.

3. Increasingly unwilling to go out, can stay at home for several days.

My friend Wen is 35 years old and has not yet gotten married. He has found two girlfriends, but because there are no common languages, he broke up. After the failed love, Wen became more and more lonely. He didn't go out for several days, ate noodles, and slept when he was tired, without caring about whether it was day or night.

Once, Wen's mobile phone was out of power, and his family went everywhere to find him. They searched for several places without seeing him. Later, they knocked on his rental room, and it took a half hour before they heard the door 'creak' open. Seeing Wen's sleepy appearance, his parents were both loving and hating.

Lonely people are not about spending time alone, but about staying alone for a long time and not contacting anyone. They often want to hide in deep mountains and old forests to escape from society. Perhaps, his subconscious wants to escape from this society.

4. At work, always silent and unnoticed, no one cares whether he is there or not.

We have a colleague called A Heng in our company. He is 'shadowy and elusive'. He doesn't know when he comes to work and when he goes home. His footsteps are light, his voice is low, and his work is done slowly. He doesn't hurry or worry.

Once during a meeting, when the meeting was about to start, A Heng arrived late, sat in the back row, and sat carefully. No one noticed him. When I suddenly saw him at the end of the meeting, I felt very strange. We work in the same company, but we haven't met for several days. I didn't see him in the school group. Everyone thought he didn't exist.

Lonely people are not like depressed people or solitary people. Loneliness is a 'chill' in the depths of the soul, which gradually locks themselves. If you also have these features, then you are a lonely person.

In fact, a lonely person is willing to open his heart, and loneliness will gradually disappear.

Author: Plain Clothes Eater.

Follow my text, step into your soul.

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