01Slightly revealing a little intimacy leads to rambling – this must be fixed! 02Replace 'Did you understand?' with 'Have I explained it?' 03You must reply to messages from others, even if you don't want to chat; you can convey it subtly with emojis or punctuation – not replying is impolite, not being aloof, but lacking manners. 04Don't trade a friendship for your secrets. 05I've seen tattooed burly men giving up seats on buses, and I've seen wealthy men in suits tying their ties and squandering public funds. Looks don't always equal gentlemen; flashy appearances don't always signify virtue – don't judge by appearances.
06Different circles, don't force yourself to fit in. 07Don't tell the wind about your secrets; it will spread throughout the entire forest. 08Don't get to know people too quickly, assuming that initial agreement and shared interests mean you've found your soulmate. Language is often false; shared experiences are the real thing. 09Don't say hurtful things behind someone's back.
010Use 'Thank you' instead of 'Thank you'; it's much more sincere. 011A girl who smiles a lot is always more appealing than a gloomy girl. 012People generally don't like being brutally honest. 013Look further away, and you won't be so heartbroken. 014 Don't look through someone's phone without their permission. 015When someone shows you photos on their phone, just look—don't 'handscroll'.
16017Be casual in love; don't be overly affectionate. It's important to speak up when you have something to say; don't wait for others to understand, because they're not you, and they don't know what you want – by the time you realize, you'll only be heartbroken and disappointed, especially in matters of the heart.019 It's impolite to spoil someone's joy.Never belittle someone's efforts. 19022 After having a boyfriend, don't cut off all contact with your friends, because when you lose your boyfriend, you'll find you have nothing.When someone tells you about their favorite things, don't contradict them – we're all sincerely passionate about what we like, and you criticizing it is just selfish.
Don't talk to strangers about your problems; few people can truly empathize, and most people will find it boring or treat it as a joke.Never rely on anyone, even if you encounter a great partner like a high schooler or a wealthy young man. The eternal law of human relationships is balance and exchange. 22
