We must have the desire to be wild horses. You can let it be free, or you can tame it and subdue it. But don't pretend it doesn't exist, reject it. Everyone should be free and proudly live a vibrant life.
01 Whether making money or growingHaving desires is not shameful.
Since ancient times, men are outside, and women are inside. This traditional mindset is deeply ingrained.It seems like as long as men are successful in their careers, even if they cheat or abuse, others will easily consider it a successful example and forgive it. However, as for women, no matter what they do in their careers or families, if they have any shortcomings, they will be considered failures by others. When women have desires and ambitions, people around them often avoid them, while the standards that people admire women are to be virtuous and docile.Even today, when men and women are equal, many people still think: women cannot be ambitious in the workplace, and they must give men a chance when there is a promotion opportunity. After all, you will eventually have to go home to take care of your children.Women cannot ask their husbands for too much care at home, because if you don't work, you can't be tired from doing housework and taking care of children.I work hard, and a salary increase is a natural thing. I take care of family and educate children, and I ask my husband for more care, which is reasonable. People who don't work hard will always have a hundred excuses for laziness, while people who work hard deserve all the applause and praise.In ‘Beijing Women’s Chronicle’, there is a line: ‘Since all the girls in the city are rushing to wear crystal shoes, I’d rather earn money and buy a pair myself, as it might take me to that place faster.’Women have desires, and it’s not shameful. If you want to make money, work hard and strive; if you want to grow, quietly study and humbly learn. There are so many successful people, why can’t it be me? Learn to rely on yourself.It is said that women are emotional, and once they fall in love with someone, they always become anxious and worried.I pay attention to his promises, and I secretly plan our future together. I care about his life and want to participate in everything he does. When you fall in love with a person who cares about you and tolerates you, you are lucky. But not everyone’s love is smooth sailing.After experiencing a lot, you will understand: this world has nothing that is always the same, some people's care is just a fleeting impulse, some people's words of love are just copied and pasted. The only reliance for women in love is their outstanding and diligent selves.Actress Yang was once asked during an interview: ‘When you want to buy a house for your parents, will you ask your husband for permission?’Yang replied: ‘Why should I ask him for permission? I can afford it myself.’When women have enough money, they will find that they are more free. They don’t need to rely on men for a house and a car, and they don’t need to rely on love. If they don’t love, they can leave gracefully. When you have a family, you can do housework and take care of children, or you can wear high heels and go to the workplace to fight.When you have rich experience and abundant knowledge, you will not be sad because of trivial matters, you will not be petty and narrow-minded, and you will have the confidence and courage to fly high like an eagle. Life is short, and things you like are expensive, and places you want to go are far away. Only through hard work and dedication can you achieve better things.The world doesn’t believe in tears, only in your efforts. As you get older, you’ll find that good luck is hidden in your hard work. When you become outstanding and excellent, things will naturally become better.Go on to live your life, be a woman who has desires, look at the stars and the sea, and have ambitions. Don't stop because of others.Go on to live your life, wish you shine in the sun, stand firm in the storm, and live the way you want in the quiet years.Women can do many things, and shouldn’t be defined as what. The pain that hurts us most is the moment when we feel powerless. Once a person is tired of being weak, they will have the motivation to keep working hard.The world doesn’t believe in tears, only in your efforts.Experience shows that good luck is hidden in hard work. When you become outstanding and excellent, things will naturally become better.Go on to live your life, wish you shine in the sun, stand firm in the storm, and live the way you want in the quiet years. “
