Life is Fragile, Be Mindful in All Things

People's hearts are separated by their bellies; even if you engage in elaborate conversations, it doesn't matter how skillfully you speak, you shouldn't reveal your innermost thoughts,The saying 'people's hearts are separated by their bellies' reminds us that even if you're having a lively conversation with someone, you must remind yourself not to reveal your innermost thoughts. Some secrets should not be shared, and not all inner feelings need to be spoken to others. If he later uses them as talking points or betrays them, it's a betrayal of your sincerity,Don't tell everyone about your troubles,In this world, many people don't care about your difficulties, and they won't step in to help you. Don't tell anyone about your troubles; learn to endure them yourself and become stronger. The only person you can truly rely on is yourself,Always leave yourself some leeway in everything,Don't make too many promises; if you can, you should only promise eighty percent; the remaining twenty percent is for your own buffer. If you promise one hundred percent, you may exceed others' expectations, and this could damage your reputation,No matter how much you dislike someone, don't talk behind their back,Don't talk bad about people behind their backs; don't spread rumors about people; otherwise, you don't know when your words will be spread and possibly embellished, making you subject to gossip and trouble.