I am 53 years old this year
Seeing a passage: 'Too few setbacks will make you think that everything is a matter of concern. When you experience more and more truth and falsehood, you see the truth of the world, and then you don't have so much sorrow. You become more and more silent and unwilling to speak.'
Yeah, in middle age, people often feel lonely and silent. Because every time you open your eyes, there are people relying on you, but no one relies on you.
Becoming more and more silent and unwilling to speak means: Life comes and goes, and only a few people can enter your heart. No matter how much pain and grievance, you don't need to tell everyone. They may comfort you, or they may treat it as a joke. What truly heals you is always yourself.
Silence is a sign of maturity. You see more people and things, you are not noisy or outspoken, and you have your own quiet strength.
In his youth, he always cared about what others thought of him. Hearing idle talk, he was deeply concerned, misunderstood and eager to argue, and a little grievance was told to everyone.
As you experience more, you like to be silent and unwilling to speak, because you have let go of it.
For those who deceive and hurt you, silence is the highest contempt.
Let go of the past, be silent and move forward, so that you can find 'a village with dark streams and winding roads' after 'mountain after mountain, river after river, there is no way to go' and reach the place you want to go.
From walking through the years, I slowly realized that many people and things in the world are beyond our control. There are things that must be done in life, but there are no things that must be forced. When something cannot be controlled, let it go.
Over the years, I've gone through wind and rain, had tears and pain. Some things cannot be touched, only silence; some people are beyond help, only silence.
Having seen the depths of human hearts, choosing silence, letting go of fate, is also a kind of freedom.
Becoming more and more silent is a sign of maturity, it is the restraint and calmness that life teaches you, it is also the greatest humility and tolerance to others, and the greatest courtesy.
In the future of life, I hope you can be silent and calm, come and go with the situation, indifferent to everything, watch the flowers bloom and fall in the courtyard; no matter where you go, don't worry about it, just follow the way, don't complain, don't be angry, don't insist, don't be indignant, let it go with the flow.
'If destined, you will stay, if not, you can go; let the breeze carry the white clouds.' Learning to let go of fate is the first way to get rid of worries.
Someone said: 'No one cares how you cry in the dark, and no one cares about you tossing and turning, how many autumns you survive. Outsiders only see the results, and you are alone to carry the process. When you understand this principle, you won't show off in front of people to seek comfort.'
When you become more and more silent, it's a sign of maturity, it's the restraint and calmness that life teaches you, it's also the greatest humility and tolerance to others, and the greatest courtesy.
In the future of life, I hope you can be silent and calm, come and go with the situation, indifferent to everything, watch the flowers bloom and fall in the courtyard; no matter where you go, don't worry about it, just follow the way, don't complain, don't be angry, don't insist, don't be indignant, let it go with the flow.
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