Success is not to be celebrated; peace is to be rejoiced.
Someone's help is a blessing, learn to have joy and gratitude; if no one helps you, learn to face and bear things calmly. No one should do anything for you, because life is your own, and you must take responsibility for it. Acceptance of impermanence is a compulsory course in life, and letting go of attachment is an elective course. When life falls, remember that you must fall to the deepest valley before you can stand on the highest peak you've never reached.
Happiness isn't about having a beautiful appearance, it's about living beautifully. So don't worry about not looking pretty, focus on learning to love yourself, accept yourself, and regulate your emotions, then improve yourself without wasting your life and money trying to fix yourself. Loving me is a profound beauty, and that's where true confidence comes from. Maybe you don't have a stunning appearance, but you're a comfortable person, and that's the best outcome.
Once you set your aspirations, you must persevere and not give up halfway through. Constantly meditate on your life's vision and strive for it, otherwise, your aspirations will change from one day to the next, one ideal after another, passing of time, regret is inevitable.
Use others' experiences as a reference, use others' success as your role model. Don't ruin people's names in the name of goodness; don't disregard universal principles to protect your own mistakes. Always remember the kindness of others, and always praise others' strengths. If you replace jealousy with praise, everything will go smoothly and happily; if you replace attachment with acceptance, you will find convenience and freedom everywhere. Failure is not shameful, it's regrettable to lack ambition! Success is not to be celebrated, peace is to be rejoiced!
