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A Life’s Essential Phrase: Happiness Isn't Superficial Vanity, But an Inner Need


Life is a journey. Sailing inevitably encounters gusts from all sides, but every gust will accelerate your speed. As long as you hold the helm steady, even in a storm, you won't deviate from your course.

It's easy for a person to come out of other people's worlds, but difficult to get out of one's own desert. Human affairs are often like this. When mentioning pain, it's unbearable; years later, it's just a memory.

Angry people are sensitive, sensitive people are strong, strong people are stubborn, stubborn people are simple, simple people are naive, naive people lack heart.

Recognize this world, then love it, for a lifetime. You may not be in this world next time. Some troubles, if lost, there's an opportunity for a light and breezy feeling.

Take good care of yourself, life is short and beautiful, no time to dwell on it, no time to count.

Sensitive people are like holding a magnifying glass to look at the world, all beautiful things are magnified, all ugliness is also magnified. Excessive imagination turns a little sweetness into a burnt sweetness, and a little bitterness into unbearable pain. Your mood is like riding a roller coaster, living like a double-edged neurosis.


Don't compare yourself to others, and you will be content. Don't set too high a goal for your life, and you will be happy all the time.

It's okay to be childish, it's not bad. People will eventually grow up, why rush to mature and lose it early. No matter what happens today, you shouldn't feel sad. A life is short, forgive everyone before going to bed.

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Yesterday was good, but you can't go back. Tomorrow will be difficult, you still have to take your feet forward. No one can bother you unless you bother yourself with others' words and deeds. There's no matter that you can't let go of, unless you don't want to let go yourself. Life is about mood.

I wish you can reconcile with the person you have a cold war with tomorrow, because in love, it's not appropriate to say who is right or wrong, there shouldn't be an answer.

A still heart is not clear. The more you try to figure something out, the more confused you become. Once you have an obsession in your heart, it will only become more and more tangled. 'Subdue your desires and follow nature' is the right way. 'When you've arrived, be kind and generous.' This is the way to survive.

You will always encounter everything that is not as bad as you imagine. Because maybe someone you can't see is experiencing a situation that's even worse than yours.


There is only one true heroism – to still love life after recognizing the truth of life.

People should be complacent, their hearts should be open. Human life is no more than a few spring and autumn, human breadth is no more than east, west, north and south, human impermanence is just joys and sorrows.

Life's greatest pain is a lack of belonging in the heart, whether you know it or not, whether you admit it or not. Having a good heart means there's nothing to be annoyed about; having a kind heart means there's no one to hate. If your heart is simple, all worldly turmoil will disappear.

Always live for yourself, and your smile should be particularly brilliant. Be the best version of yourself. Don't care about what others say, let those who look down on you look up to you, and let those who look up to you like you more.

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Happiness is when you want to eat a bun and you get a bun, and you eat it calmly. If you only get half a bun that's too little, less than a meager existence, if you get two, it's abundant, if you get three, it's a burden, if you get more, it's cumbersome. Happiness is not about having more, it's about being just right; happiness is not about vanity on your face, but a need in your heart; happiness doesn't depend on others' eyes, but on yourself.

When you were a child, you hoped to grow up quickly, when you grew up, you realized you had lost your childhood; when you were single, you began to envy the sweetness of lovers, when you were in love, you missed the freedom of being single. Many things, if you don't get them, you always think they're beautiful. When you get them, you begin to understand: what we get is also what we lose.


You must walk unfamiliar roads, see unfamiliar scenery, listen to unfamiliar songs, and at some unexpected moment, you will find that the things you've tried so hard to forget have actually forgotten.

Friends are people who won't talk about you behind your back, who don't care about your money, but who are kind and humorous. A friend isn't necessarily willing to help you when you're in trouble, but they're the ones who won't speak ill of you.

This year, it's not lacking love, it's lacking people who take love seriously.

When you care about something too much, you become tired; things that can't be held onto shouldn't be held onto too tightly, otherwise, you'll stumble on them later.

Always live for yourself, and your smile should be particularly brilliant. Be the best version of yourself. Don't care about what others say, let those who look down on you look up to you, and let those who look up to you like you more.

It's okay to be childish, it's not bad. People will eventually grow up, why rush to mature and lose it early. No matter what happens today, you shouldn't feel sad. A life is short, forgive everyone before going to bed.


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