Drinking Skewers or Studying and Fitness: How You Spend Your Evenings Determines Your Future Life

I once received a private message from a netizen, which I found particularly interesting.

To be honest, with only a little bit of personal time each day, it's all being wasted in the midst of wine and conversations.

It's really impressive how this netizen thinks! If I weren't invited by the boss to drink skewers, I would feel very good.

First, I'm very tired after a day's work, I need my own private space and time.Normally, excluding commuting time, from getting off work to eating dinner and tidying up, it's usually around 8 pm. From 8 pm to 10 pm, I can read books, code, accompany children, or take my family for a walk or shopping. All of these things can make me feel more relaxed, happy and fulfilled.

Secondly, I don't like drinking, and I'm against being persuaded to drink.And based on my past experience, once you enter a wine field, someone will definitely try to persuade you to drink. And some people's purpose is to get you drunk.

Moreover, talking about 'skewer talks' is far from healthy eating, and frequent indulgence like this is likely to harm your health.Thirdly, work matters should be handled during working hours.

I like to fully invest in my work during working hours. I also actively participate in colleague gatherings and group activities. Work relies on performance, I don't need the boss to often take me out to drink and chat, nor do I need 'skewer talks'.Finally, if the boss doesn't invite me to drink or eat skewers, it's also a form of mutual respect.

This shows that the boss understands my style and is willing to respect my life and habits. I believe he won't use it as an excuse to make things difficult for me in the future.

Of course, some people would like to drink and chat with the boss together, thinking it can strengthen relationships, facilitate communication, or get closer to the boss. However, from my ten years of work experience, even if the boss is very frank with you, don't take it too seriously. If your performance is poor, you will be dismissed. It's better to spend time doing other things with more meaning.1Use this time to study and learn.

As the saying goes, the difference between adults is how they use the time from 8 pm to 10 pm. Although most of the time is occupied by work and sleep, the time you can actually use is very limited. And this time is precious, so use it to study and learn, which will help you improve your abilities and become stronger.2Use this time to exercise.

Looking at the increasingly bulging belly and the gradually distorted figure, many people have set a goal to work hard to get fit. Even if you have a plan and a gym card, you still haven't taken action. 'Busy' is always an excuse. So why not use this time to exercise?3Use this time to accompany family.

How long has it been since you've taken the time to spend time with your family? Maybe you say you're eating together and sleeping together. But is that companionship? Companionship is about investing time and energy together and enjoying the process. Whether it's shopping, walking, or watching a movie, make the most of this time.4Use this time to rest and relax.

, a balance between work and leisure, work a day is already very tired, use this time to relax and rest, make your mood happy, so you can be full of energy to start your life. This is also a good choice.