Understanding the Secrets of Age Allows You to Live a Good Life
What is the best age to be?
Some say it's carefree childhood, others say it's 'to challenge the heavens' in youth, and still others say it's enjoying family harmony, chatting slowly in a rocking chair in old age… We all envy either what has come or what has passed.
Actually,Ten is not a bad age,
Heroes come out in their youth,The world belongs to you, and it belongs to us, but fundamentally it belongs to you. Young people are full of vigor and energy, and they are in their prime. We hope to entrust our hopes to you. The world belongs to you, and the future of China belongs to you.
Thirty is a good age,Wang Xiaobo gives a vivid explanation: 'Thirty years old carries the responsibilities that a man should carry.'Thirty years old, you shoulder the responsibilities that a man should carry; you support a sky for your lover; at this time, you start to have children, you shield them from the wind and rain.
Thirty years old, you also establish yourself. You support the sky that your parents have supported; you create a sky for your lover; at this time, you have children, you shield them from the wind and rain.
Forty years old, you've tasted the sweetness and bitterness of life, you've got what you value, you've let go of what you can't bear, you've calmed down the heartbeats that make you uneasy. At this age, you suddenly become enlightened.
As Park Ji-shun sings in 'Ordinary Road': 'I have crossed mountains and seas, I have passed through crowds of people; everything I once possessed has dissipated like smoke; I was disappointed, lost, and all directions were gone, until I saw that ordinary is the only answer.'
At fifty, you've realized the laws of the Tao: one year has spring and autumn, and everything has life and death; people have birth, aging, sickness, and death. Everything is in a perpetual cycle of renewal.You've also realized: cause and effect, karma is never fulfilled. Everything in life is determined by cause and effect, and only by planting good seeds can you get good results.At sixty, you're accustomed to whatever you desire, and don't exceed the boundaries. You listen to good and bad words, and you don't care about anything. Because you've realized that,The world is your own, and it has nothing to do with others.Confucius says,
Seventy years old, do what you want to do, don't exceed the boundaries.At seventy years old, everything is clear to you, you know what to do and what not to do; you know what to say and what not to say. Whatever you do, you can listen to your heart, but you won't go beyond the rules of the world.Jobs said: 'Our lives are limited, and we shouldn't waste our limited lives on the opinions of others. We should follow our inner voices.'
A person's greatest success is to be faithful to one's inner self, and to spend one's life in the way one likes.
Eighty and ninety years old are called ''. At this age, you've realized that life and death are natural laws, and you should face them squarely. As long as you live a dignified life, you can be worthy of your life.Half a lifetime has been spent serving business and family. At eighty and ninety, you realize that,You should seize the time to do what you like, and live a happy life for yourself.Living to a hundred years old, you've witnessed the changes of a century, and you're a living history and a living archive.It is said that 'having one old man at home is like having one treasure.'
A hundred-year-old is just as good.
Spring has a hundred flowers, autumn has a moon, summer has a cool wind, winter has snow. Life also has seasons.
No matter what age you are,
There is a recurrence of beauty in that age.
Our ancestors told us,Now, the present is the best time.Only by living in the present can you truly be fulfilled.
Cherish what you have now,
Is the best interpretation of age.
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