Hidden Rules of WeChat Chats: Don't Disturb, Or They Won't Reply

01. Some say that verifying the relationship between two people doesn't need to borrow money, doesn't need to ask him to do things, just a message is enough.

I totally agree with that.

Back then, when communication speed was slow, friends seemed scarce, and it took a long time for two people to communicate through letters. But now? Now, our friends seem numerous, but communication is just a few seconds of a message. However, we often get cold indifference.

A WeChat reply, although a very small thing, exposes the closeness or distance of the relationship between two people.

Someone who replies to your message quickly must really value you. Someone who replies to your message, at least cares about you. Whoever ignores your messages, you should not have any expectations, and it's better to block them, because in their eyes, you are insignificant.

02. A few days ago, a friend chatted with me and asked me, ‘Aren’t everyone busy now?’

I asked him why.

He said, ‘One night I was bored and wanted to chat with old classmates. I contacted five or six people who were still good friends, but only one of them replied. The others just disappeared into thin air. I felt very frustrated.’

Looking at his confused expression, I told him, ‘In life, we meet many people, but some are destined to be passersby.’

Regarding those who don’t reply to your messages, you should maintain a calm attitude and stop bothering them.

Because your disturbances can only make them annoyed.

I’ve read this sentence:

‘In the adult world, someone’s reply to your message doesn’t necessarily mean they care about you, but not replying definitely means they don’t.’

I deeply agree with this.

Of course, everyone is busy now, but you should know that if someone really values your friend, they will always respond when they have time. Conversely, if your message doesn’t get a reply, it only shows that the other person has already pushed you outside their circle of friends.No matter what, people should know how to retreat. When someone has already rejected you by not replying to your message, you should give up questioning and arguing, otherwise it will be awkward for both of you.

03. I’ve come across this sentence online: ‘My reply to your message is a quick reply, your reply to my message is a cycle, and what’s even more sad is that it’s not replying at all.’

Often, we have to admit that someone’s response to you reflects their attitude towards you.

Friend Qiang told me this story.

When he got married, he sent a message to his best friend, letting them know about the wedding and inviting them to attend.

One of his best friends hadn't seen the message because he wasn't busy, and he called him to explain.

But the friend’s cold response surprised him – ‘I saw the message, but I couldn’t make it because I was busy.’ He then hung up.

He understood this, after all, many people are under a lot of pressure and busy.

Later, he chatted with a mutual friend, who told him that his ‘best friend’ wasn’t busy because he didn’t want to take a share of the money, and his ‘best friend’ even complained to him, ‘It’s not like we’re that close, he shouldn’t call me.’

Do you really need to spend so much effort to reply to a message? It's just effort for him to reply.

So, if someone doesn’t reply to your message, you should be prepared – your relationship may not be as good as you thought. You don't need to be upset, because the distance between the two of you is already too far.

You should just break the relationship between the two of you, which is fair to both of you.

04. In this world, whether it’s love or friendship, there’s nothing that’s destined to last forever.

Perhaps two people were once so close that they could wear the same clothes, but over time, they would find that they had drifted apart and eventually ended up with no contact.

People between people have no obligation to be friends.

Therefore, you shouldn’t bind someone, when someone is cold to you and doesn’t reply to your messages, you should accept the separation between you two.

People’s relationships are like this.

Some people enter our lives and only have one journey, but for those who have a journey with us, we should cherish it. And for those who cannot travel with us, we should let it go.

In the adult world, don’t expect too much of others. You will always meet new friends.

You should just do yourself, and let fate decide the relationship between you and others.

01. Some say that verifying the relationship between two people doesn't need to borrow money, doesn't need to ask him to do things, just a message is enough.

I totally agree with that.