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author | zhuchuxin
In emotions, the most common mistake we make is to hold onto something we can't let go of. Some people can no longer bring us happiness and joy, recalling him is full of pain, even so, you don't want to delete, unwilling to give up.This is like exposing your own vulnerabilities to others, then letting them wield knives and wound you. This kind of harm is unnecessary, it's your reluctance, holding onto hope, letting the other person become strong enough. Often, giving up is the beginning of rebirth. A few days ago, a friend was heartbroken. She tried to contact the person she used to like, asking him why he didn't even say a word before breaking up, she finally borrowed someone else's phone to contact him, he remained silent for a long time, he only said, 'How have you been recently?'The male student didn't say anything, she didn't dare to continue waiting, so she hastily hung up the phone and burst into tears. She couldn't help but recall, couldn't help but shed tears, and finally, she took out her phone and deleted everything related to the male student. She once thought she would never delete the male student, because of her deep love, she couldn't bear to let go, but eventually, she still couldn't endure the torment he brought her. Actually, I admire this approach—by cutting off the source of harm, you also protect yourself, dare to love and dare to hate. Once you let go, don't drag it on.Only by deleting your memories, forgetting the sadness, can you live a better life.Often, we choose to delete not because we forget, but because it's so difficult to forget. If there's a 'you' in your phone, you can't help but want to care, want to contact, words you can't bring yourself to send, seeing friends' updates will inexplicably make you feel uneasy. After leaving you, you're doing so well. Always wanting to know your life, to pry into your feelings, that string of familiar phone numbers is quickly dialed and hung up, always fantasizing about what would happen if you were by my side, what would happen if we started again. But if it's always 'if'……Countless times wanting to give up, countless unwilling to let go, you'll always criticize that humble self within, yet you'll still give up when you see him.Later, she realized, besides blocking and deleting, there's no way to get rid of the pain.Maybe only by letting you out of my world can you no longer need me, I can live independently, I can better face my life in the future. In the future, you and I will have no intersection. The day I deleted you, I mustered the courage to send you away from my world. The questions that couldn't be figured out no longer lingered. It turns out that no matter how much you let go, you can't let go. I hope one day in the future, when I see your name, I can smile and let it go, and when we meet again, it won't matter. I can give you my sincerest blessings, and I can graciously accept others' love.Maybe this day is not far off. When important things are no longer important, when sad things are no longer sad… Everything starts with letting go of you…
Love Night Reading (ID: youtingaiqing); Love Night Reading, a haven for emotions.The worldis so big, everyone wants to go and see, but not everyone has the courage to leave.Use your feet to measure the world, it's limited, while reading explores the world is boundless!youtingaiqing
