Kick Your Son and Send Them Out of the Bridal Chamber
I always felt that the term 'family' is a warm existence, no matter how hard-hearted one may be, mentioning this term will cause it to soften,
Having a family gives people a sense of belonging, and having a family makes people not lonely. Every ordinary person is a hero, living hard for a better life, everything they do is for the family to be happy and harmonious, this seems to be the meaning of life,
But some people completely distort the meaning of 'family' and change its taste. They use this warm word as a 'rope' for 'binding',
I have to praise them, they are really shrewd, using this warm word to capture people's hearts, making others want to break free, and then they will consider whether to hurt them, this 'family kidnapping' is indeed a powerful weapon,
You are all family, don't be too petty,
You are all family, what's the point of suffering,
You are all family, can't you forgive me for doing something wrong,
You are all family, if you don't give me face, you're so cold-blooded,
See, just adding the prefix 'family', it's hard for anyone to say no, it's a terrible 'spell'.,
But this spell is not foolproof, and it will fail sometimes. The more it's used, the less effective it becomes, especially for the younger generation,
Little Ling has always been a self-reliant girl, living bravely, never thinking about the front and back, as long as she wants to do something, she will do it, even if she makes a mistake, she will never regret, she dares to take risks and fight, although she is tall and beautiful, she is always a 'man girl', as she says, she was thrown into the wrong womb, there's a tough guy inside,
It's because her family played a big role in cultivating her personality. She was so courageous because she had a solid backing, so she didn't need to consider gains and losses. Her parents operated a steel fabrication factory locally, which wasn't small in scale. She didn't really know how much capital her family had,
But she lived in the wealthy villa district and Little Ling, a 95-year-old, already owned a two-hundred square meter house, which was naturally not earned by her, but given to her by her parents.
Little Ling is smart, but not a studious person, so she didn't really have a reason to study hard, even if she graduated, her parents sent her to a foreign 'wild university', after returning, she became a music teacher in a private elementary school,
It was in the school that Little Ling met her colleague's friend through introduction, a doctoral student who was not yet graduated at the time, Xiao Hu,
Xiao Hu was not a humorous man, he was very serious and orthodox, although he was young, he was old-fashioned, but he was indeed outstanding. Little Ling always disliked dealing with boys her age, but Xiao Hu didn't, they ate together and didn't make vulgar and bad jokes, which made Little Ling like this boy immediately,
When Little Ling and Xiao Hu announced their relationship, everyone was surprised, because of Little Ling's family conditions, everyone would think that she would marry a man arranged by her parents, at least they would be at least a level,
And Xiao Hu, he really didn't meet the standard. Although he was outstanding, his family's conditions were not good. His father had some disabilities, his mother was taking care of his father, and there was another brother, living a difficult life. Xiao Hu, as the eldest brother, was the hope of the family, so he did not disappoint everyone, he was admitted to a doctoral program,
The family was proud, but a doctoral degree can't eat, studying a doctorate is a school scholarship and subsidy, after graduating, he couldn't find a job, he relied on Little Ling's support,
Facing such a family, Little Ling didn't feel any incompatibility: 'I saw that I liked Xiao Hu, I was willing to marry him, I didn't marry him because of his parents, my family doesn't need money, why do I care about material conditions, I like it when it's like this, don't care about others' opinions,' Little Ling's parents never made any demands on her, so she didn't interfere with what she wanted to do, even though Xiao Hu's family was complicated, they said a few words and gave up,
Without a house, it doesn't matter, Little Ling has a house, without money it doesn't matter either. Little Ling doesn't need it, she doesn't care about money, the two families talked about their wedding arrangements, and it was quickly settled, but Little Ling only made one request, that is, she would never live with her in-laws, her in-laws listened to Little Ling's request, and agreed quickly, and didn't show any displeasure,
After the wedding was set, Little Ling and Xiao Hu started to decorate the wedding house, and Little Ling gave Xiao Hu a door card, Little Ling's house where the wedding house was located was a high-end residential area, with good security measures, and all the owner information was well-known. Little Ling went in and out several times, always bringing Xiao Hu with her, just to let the security guards familiarize themselves with him,
After the decoration direction was set, later the decoration was all taken on by Xiao Hu, Little Ling was very relieved of Xiao Hu, and she didn't follow up much on the wedding house's progress,
It was not until a period of time after the wedding house was decorated that she suddenly had a whim to take a look. Xiao Hu was reluctant: 'We haven't lived together yet, what's there to look at, everything has been handled properly,', Little Ling began to suspect, Xiao Hu repeatedly dissuaded her, and Little Ling became more and more suspicious, and finally she was allowed to go and see, until Xiao Hu told her a fact:
'I didn't tell you,',
Clearly, Little Ling's in-laws didn't listen to her reason, and Little Ling, who was confident, couldn't influence them,
It's better to be strong if you can't be gentle, in fact, the approach of forcibly taking action is also the most appropriate one in this situation, although it's a temporary move, but given the circumstances, it's the best choice,
In fact, some people shouldn't use 'family' as an excuse, especially those who are arrogant and dishonest, it's best not to use it, if they don't want to be disliked,
Those fake performances and tricks, boring and useless. Smart people can see through them, why bother to be unsightly? Encouraging some people, don't be petty, if you say it, you have to do it, 'family should be honest', not just by saying it, but by doing it,
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