Lin Huiruo: The Wisest Choice for Women
In the midst of millions, meet the person you were meant to meet. In the midst of countless years, in the boundless wilderness where time has no limits, without taking a single step forward or backward, you meet her, and you can only lightly say, 'Oh, you're here too?'
This is the subtle brushstrokes and fluctuations of deep blue and white porcelain, the melody's interplay, every detail is the exquisite talent of Eileen Chang – a single sentence of her saying is a declaration of love,
Indeed, in the world, when you meet someone you love, it is predetermined by fate and.
Huinin and Liang Sicheng, just like this.
Seventeen years old, Sicheng, as the eldest son of Liang Qichao, went with his father Liang Qichao to Lin's family, and for the first time met Huinin. At that time, Huinin was fourteen years old, still with a childish face, but with a slender and graceful figure that captivated him, 'Two braids, bright and clear eyes, exquisite facial features, a smile on the left cheek, dappled sunlight filtering through the short, knee-length black silk dress,' he wrote about Huinin like this,
Indeed, he locked her in his heart from the first encounter, unlike James Joyce who longed to create her as an ideal. Such a man gave Huinin, who was sensitive, a sense of security that she couldn't find elsewhere, so when they met again, he was already in her heart,
Sicheng is one of the 'Six Talents of Wuxu', the son of Liang Qichao, and Liang Qichao favored him the most. When studying at Tsinghua University, he was the most influential figure in the campus, and his classmates regarded him as 'having a calm and agile political mind.'
Just when the opportunity arose, after returning from abroad, Huinin suddenly became obsessed with architecture. As their relationship grew closer, Huinin constantly discussed her new interest with Sicheng, while Sicheng at that time was 'I didn't even know what architecture was until Huinin told me it's a discipline that combines art and engineering. Because I like painting, I chose architecture as my major',
Because of love, Huinin was willing to go all out, so Sicheng chose architecture, but he never imagined that architecture would become their lifelong pursuit,
People can love each other, can be together for a lifetime, it must be similar people, with common interests and hobbies, or careers. If people are like this, they can understand each other with just a glance. That's what the old saying means – 'harmonious instruments.'
The quiet courtyard of 'Xuechi Linyu' in Beijing's Jingshan South Street, bought by Lin Manchun. He loved the tranquility here, and adding to that, the location was in the center of Beijing, so he decisively bought it. There were two tall and straight ginkgo trees in the back garden of the courtyard, and in the spring, the ginkgo leaves were green and tender, and the golden yellow flowers were as beautiful as a dazzling eye. After that, he often called himself 'Double Ginkgo Old Man' when writing poems and calligraphy,
And Huinin and her mother lived in the back garden, which had a purple wisteria. The wisteria swayed, its feather-like leaves tightly wrapped around the vines, and dappled sunlight filtered through the vines, creating a romantic atmosphere.
Sicheng often dated Huinin in this romantic place,
Mother was very fond of Sicheng. In her discerning eyes, he met all her expectations for a husband – he was modest, scholarly, and had a shy and sincere demeanor, although he wasn't very tall, he looked very dignified,
Most importantly, Huinin liked him,
Often, they saw the two young people immersed in happiness, like a pair of pigeons cooing and talking non-stop, and they would feel a thousand joys in their hearts. In her heart, the longing for love was deeper than anyone else's, but the lack was also the most, so she hoped that her beloved daughter could avoid her pain and gain love and happiness and completion from family,
Huinin also loved Sicheng,
Regardless of their background and cultural level, they had too many similarities, so they had a tacit understanding in terms of personality and emotions that James Joyce couldn't achieve,
Later, time proved that they knew each other's hearts, and their convergence and arrival at each other's understanding made them close to each other like twins,
Although Sicheng wasn't very eloquent; although Sicheng wasn't tall. However, he had a sense of humor that captivated Huinin, and his subtle and playful teasing often made Huinin burst into laughter, and his sincerity and generosity made Huinin feel a sense of security and peace that she had never experienced before,
So, it's enough,
So, for women, this is the most attractive choice,
Therefore, in the romantic field of James Joyce and in the relationship between Sicheng and Huinin, she chose Sicheng, Liang Sicheng,
This is a woman's wisest choice,
Thinking about it carefully, how many women are ruined because of choosing a so-called romantic relationship. Romance can be used when dating and flirting, it can be used in vows and promises for a lifetime, but it cannot be used in the practical marriage life, and once it's used, it's shattered and cannot be recovered. That's what's meant by 'you can talk about love, but you can't live a practical life.' About daily life, about arguing and fighting, about sharing joys and sorrows, about simply not talking about romance,
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