Whether a Person 'Has Seen the World' Can Be Determined by These 3 Points.
A person who can control their emotions is greater than a general who can capture a city.
On Zhihu, someone once asked:
How can a person be considered to have seen the world?
A netizen answered:
People who have seen the world have one basic characteristic, which is to know where the pinnacle of this world is, the best food, the most expensive clothes, and the most luxurious lives. The farthest places are beautiful.
Indeed, the longer a person's journey, the wider their horizons.
And, I particularly agree with this excellent answer:
'One can enjoy the best, and can also bear the worst.'
Life is not smooth sailing, ups and downs are the nature of life.
Everyone desires the best, but often it is not what we wish for. We can endure the worst, and we can grasp and let go, which is truly a mature and respectable person who has seen the world.
I think there are 3 signs that a person has seen the world:
Not blind to follow, not boastful, with a long-term perspective, and a grand perspective.
I heard a regretful story:
A swimmer twice crossed the English Channel. The first time went smoothly, but the second time failed because a fog appeared near the destination, causing him to lose his bearings and give up.
If he had known the destination was nearby, with a clear direction, he would have persevered.
Many things are the same, only those who have seen the world can have a clear understanding of what they want and what kind of life they want to live.
Some people like to show off and be arrogant, that's because they haven't seen enough of the world.
Psychologically, the more someone lacks, the more they crave.
Unknowingly, the more things are left behind, the more important what remains is.
The more one has seen the world, the less desire one has, and the more calm one is in the face of temptation.
I remembered a segment from a reality show, 'Unique's' dating views went viral:
'I like boys who have seen the world, I don't like boys who are still clueless about the world.'
Many people may be confused by this statement, 'Unique' explained:
'Only those who have read life and seen the world can truly appreciate what they have now.'
Guest judge Su Cun exclaimed: 'This is the dating standard of a woman who has seen the world.'
I think so.
People who have seen the world won't be easily affected by stimulation and short-term interests, they look at the long-term,
Mature people maintain emotional stability and a calm state of mind.
Behind emotional stability is a person's emotional intelligence and perspective.
People who have seen the world are often able to make choices and forget, they can be tolerant and forgetful, they can break free from material temptations and break free from the constraints of fame and fortune, and they can face everything calmly.
After experiencing countless mountains and rivers, you finally realize that it only takes a creek to cross.
Napoleon once said:
'A person who can control their emotions is greater than a general who can capture a city.'
Only children always write their emotions on their faces, mature people know how to control their emotions, and they are not swayed by emotions.
The key to eliminating worries is not in the big wind and waves, nor in the changes of time, but in the ordinary lives of rice, noodles, oil, and salt.
The more one has seen the world, the less one is surprised by the highs and lows, and they always maintain a calm and stable state of mind.
A person can only become wise by enduring hardships and joys.
Movie 'The Grandmaster' said: 'See all living things, see the heavens and the earth, see oneself, therefore be tolerant; see the heavens and the earth, appreciate the greatness and the smallness, therefore be humble; see oneself, feel the self and the true self, therefore be enlightened.'
Seeing all living things, understanding living things, therefore tolerant; seeing the heavens and the earth, appreciating the greatness and the smallness, therefore humble; seeing oneself, feeling the self and the true self, therefore enlightened.
Life is full of hardship, joy and sorrow are the nature of life, what we can do is to fill our hearts, and find new meanings in the boring and monotonous lives.
The more one has seen the world, the more discerning one becomes.
A truly discerning person is calm, transparent, and wise because of their experiences.
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