Therefore, you should give your parents good food and good things, don't give too much to children, giving too much to children and dressing them well are all harming their fortune.

According to the laws of the universe, many things cannot replace. When a child's fortune is harmed, you cannot replace it. The more you care about a child, the more difficult it is for him to have success, too much concern will make him worry, harming his fortune, he will then have to cultivate his fortune in hardship.

The elders and seniors are our fortune roots. We should respect elders and seniors, and when we become elders, later generations will respect you. This is cause and effect.

We should take care of our elders, even better than taking care of our younger generation. People now care more about children than parents, and later children will care more about their children, and then children will care more about you. This is a cycle of cause and effect.

The ancients said, don't leave money for your children, if your children succeed, your money won't be useful. If your children don't succeed, your money will only ruin them.

This is the law of the universe. What you should leave is yin virtue. We should do good deeds, and our descendants will naturally have fortune. Putting money in yin virtue is the best, blessing future generations.

I have seen many people do good deeds and accumulate virtue, and their descendants are all good. The father of Great Master Hongyi was called Li Shenren by locals. The father of the Great Chan Master Xingyun was also called Xiao Shenren.

People with virtue naturally attract people with virtue. The heavens are fair. The ancients said, you can't always be wealthy, meaning you can't always be rich if you don't have virtue. Rich people will become poor people. When poor people work hard and have virtue, they become rich. This is the law of cause and effect, the conservation of energy.

Rich people like to spend a lot of money on their children and provide them with a good education. Although the world's education is good, the best education is virtue education.

Don't harm a child's virtue education, even more than knowledge and technical education. Therefore, don't harm a child's fortune, even if you have money, you should donate.

The heavens will not disappoint people, the money donated is yin virtue, which will bless future generations, the heavens will take care of him.

Let your children suffer, let them grow up, they will not suffer in the future. Parents really want to accumulate fortune for their children, if there is surplus money, take it to donate or do good deeds, accumulate yin virtue, this is following the heavens, and the heavens will take care of the child.

However, some people think of giving their children a happy life, saving a lot of money for their children, even using illegal money, isn't this harming them?

Parents cannot replace the heavens, parents should listen to the heavens, not to act on their own. Many people left a lot of money for their children, all ruined their children, spoiled their children, as a result, children don't listen to their parents. Let children suffer, it's for their benefit, it's a good thing!

A young man is praying in the magnificent Golden Hall of the Buddha, holding a stick of incense and bowing before the Buddha. He inserted the incense into the incense burner and prayed, 'May the Buddha bless me to pass the imperial examination, get promoted and demoted, and serve the country.' Then he knelt down to worship several times before leaving.

Ten years later, the young man had grown into a handsome young man with vigorous energy. He didn't pass the imperial examination, but turned to take up a pen and serve as a soldier, establishing a reputation in the army. This homecoming was specially to attend a wedding.

The young man, as before, burned three sticks of incense and bowed respectfully, saying, 'May the Buddha bless me to find a good marriage, my wife is virtuous, and the couple are harmonious.' He then bowed repeatedly before kneeling down again.

The Great Chan Master saw this scene and was very moved, turned his head and saw the Chan Master still smiling and didn't speak, and said, 'Chan Master, why don't you still respond to him?' The Chan Master smiled and said, 'Still a stick of incense.'

Ten years later, the young man had entered middle age, and wrinkles had appeared on his forehead. Because of his family's connections, the former general, now demoted to a local magistrate, was depressed and unable to find his purpose. He returned to the temple to pray for his family and ancestors.

In his middle age, he prayed, 'Buddha, I have already died, I pray to you to let my children study hard and complete my unfinished business.' The Chan Master looked at him and looked at the Chan Master who was still smiling and didn't speak, and sighed in his heart, 'It's still a stick of incense.'

After another ten years, the once middle-aged man had entered old age, and his hair had turned white. Now he had retired, lived in the countryside, and had no more grand ambitions.

The elderly man, as before, burned three sticks of incense and bowed, saying, 'Buddha, you have never fulfilled my wishes before, but this time, please be sure to fulfill it. I want my parents to be healthy and safe. If not, I have nothing to ask for.'

The Chan Master was kind and sympathetic, and heard these words, he couldn't help but be moved. He turned to look at the Chan Master and looked at the Chan Master who was smiling and nodded slightly, and said, 'It's still a stick of incense.'

Ten years later, the once middle-aged man had entered his later years, and a stick of incense was still needed for his prayers. He burned it in the temple, and said, 'Buddha, I don't need to ask for anything, but this time, please let my children have excellent education and complete my unfinished business.'

The elderly man finally decided to stay at home and take care of his mother. As for the incense burned in the Golden Hall of the Buddha to pray for his family and ancestors, he never stopped.

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