Despite Being in Love, It Feels Like Being a Lonely Dog; Don't Give Up on Long-Distance Relationships, and You Will Eventually Achieve Happiness
The longest distance in the world is when we are clearly in love but separated by distance. Long-distance relationships are too exhausting, especially for girls. Everyone around you knows you have a boyfriend, but every time you need him, he's not there. Every time you have something to share with him, you can only communicate through video. When you're sad, you don't have anyone to lean on, someone who can be by your side. Only your true best friend and that lonely self are left. Every couple has warm good mornings and good nights and hugs. You only have phone calls with words that lack temperature. Sometimes he even dislikes you being a bother and doesn't pick up the phone.
If you get sick, boyfriends of others would rush to take their girlfriends to the hospital and visit them, offering comfort. Your boyfriend just says drink more water. I'm not a doctor, what do I know? You just argued with him, why do I know what to say? You think he's someone who can do anything for you, but he doesn't care about you at all. It's like he's trying to trick a cat. Just waking up, he's busy with work, but he doesn't reply to your messages within a few minutes. If it were him, no matter how busy he is, he would patiently respond to his partner. But he always ignores your feelings.
There's a couple who has been in a long-distance relationship for five years. They are quite familiar with each other, but they are in a long-distance relationship and online dating. They met because the man added the woman as a friend online. They talked a lot and the woman thought he was a kind and well-aligned man. He told her about his family, his love life, his sorrows and joys. The woman initially treated him as a normal friend, and he would reply to her questions. She was usually cold, so she started to take the initiative. The woman felt that the man liked her, so she kept chatting with him. Gradually, the woman opened up, and she took the initiative.
It's ironic that when the woman took the initiative, she stopped replying to him, or ignored him. When she asked him questions, he would ignore her and change the subject, or he wouldn't reply. When the woman sent him messages, he was busy posting on his. It's like he's treating her like a fool! Even if he's just woken up, he's busy with work, but he doesn't reply to your messages within a few minutes. If it were him, no matter how busy he is, he would patiently respond to his partner. But he always ignores your feelings.
The reasons why the man doesn't reply to her messages are truly exasperating, and he went to play basketball, took his dog for a walk, and went to dinner with his friends. Why doesn't he share it with her? Later, the woman became cold, and the man realized the seriousness of the problem, and they reconciled. Later, the woman wanted to confess her feelings, but he said he was sleepy. It was so hard to get together, and finally, the woman was happy to announce her relationship on her. But he didn't pay much attention. If others were in the same situation, they would probably give up on this long-distance relationship. But the woman persevered. Slowly, the man started to send her messages, although there were still those times when she sent him a message, and he said he was sleepy.
So, when facing the situation of 'being in love but like a single dog', don't give up easily. Try to persevere, long-distance relationships already face life's tests. Maybe the other person will have better girls around him, but he will have you in his heart. Don't think that because your boyfriend says he's playing games, he won't respond to you, and don't give up on him because of unfounded fears. Think carefully, you know, both of you were in love at the beginning, time will make the feelings fade. This is no different than a long-distance relationship or a regular relationship.
Perseverance doesn't mean you have to contact him every day or bombard him with calls. It's about returning to the feeling of dating. Share interesting things with him, don't be too proactive, and don't be too cold. Make him proactively want to contact you. Think about it, if you bombard him with calls, he'll know you're completely tied to him, and he won't proactively contact you. Men like to conquer women, so don't treat him too well.
