The more you yield, the more they act defiant.
This world has a very strange phenomenon, from childhood to old age, we have been educated with quality education, and the books say that being a good person means being kind, just, and understanding of others, respecting others, and being courteous. But after growing up and entering society, some people, the more sincere you are, the more respectful and courteous you are, the more they become unscrupulous and continue to bully you. Your steadfast self-respect, or quality, is of no value in such people, it has no meaning. Your respect is seen as weakness and incompetence, your politeness is deeply scorned. You say 'thank you' or 'sorry', they pretend not to hear. Your inherent goodness of humanity is shocked and scattered by these people with malice. How should a person live? How should a good-hearted person face some ignorant demons and monsters? Should we just choose to evade?
Love
Later, I encountered people with vicious hearts, who deceived, abused, and played with me, yet I foolishly continued to comply.
Some love is incredibly realistic, because you encounter incredibly realistic people.
It's a matter of mutual understanding and compromise – if you wish, they wish. But if you blindly believe in pure love, it's often a mistake!
The workplace
When I first entered the workplace, I thought – as long as I work hard and respect others, everything will be fine. But who could have imagined the workplace's ruthless indifference.
The workplace is all about money and interests. There are people who feign kindness, and those who appear virtuous, and even those who deliberately squeeze you dry.
When I was young, I didn't understand – going to a company doesn't treat people as people. I was full of ambition to work hard for an ideal, but I was beaten up like a dog on the first day. It was a bloody mess!
He scolded me, and I panicked, that's exactly what he did. I made a mistake, and he continued to create loopholes. After getting off work, I cried bitterly.
Later, I realized how silly I was back then. Sometimes, life is about being honest, but those who are dishonest will take advantage of you.
You discover that you're a naive and ignorant girl or boy, they become even more greedy, eager to turn you into a meatloaf and treat you as a lamb for slaughter…
Strangers
From childhood, teachers teach us to respect the elderly and care for the young. This is not wrong. When we see an old person, we always feel that he or she should be kind, amiable, and approachable.
Later, I read a sentence: 'Some old people are not bad, they are just bad people.' It's like feeling it myself.
We can't say that bad people are more than good people, but we often encounter people who are beyond reason.
This world cannot be like what we read in books – can people between people give each other warmth, respect, and courtesy?
No, humanity is divided into two levels, and humans are divided into two types – one type of person adheres to goodness, and the other type of person chooses to bully honest people. You use all your energy to pursue warmth, and those with malicious hearts use every means to 'play' you.
What do you do?
Sometimes, you feel you've been wronged, but you panic and want to evade, but can evasion succeed? It won't, even if you've done nothing wrong, you have to bow to a cunning and verbose bully.
Sometimes, you have to understand that, even if the right is victorious, kindness, goodness, and love require more wisdom and courage.
Love should be given to those who love you;
Respect is always a 'mutual' gesture;
Kindness shouldn't be given to wolves with ulterior motives.
Those who are arrogant and opportunistic are more cunning than anyone else. If you show your courage, arrogant people won't know you're right, they just see you as young, poor, old, and silly, they deliberately embarrass you. Even if you're a poor scholar, you should live with confidence, even if you're a weak girl, you should learn to transform knowledge into strength.
The more you tolerate, the more some people find a weak person to bully. Arrogant people don't believe in tears, but gentlemen don't make trouble. In life, if you are honest and upright, don't let those who are cunning and arrogant take advantage of you.
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