Many parents work hard and make money for their children's better lives, but material only determines the standard of living. Parents' dedication is what truly determines a child's future.

Instead of giving children gold and silver, tell them these principles:

1 Studying is not miserable, an uneducated life is miserable

'Abundance of books brings consummate elegance', the more you read, the more you understand principles and discern right from wrong, allowing you to choose your job without a degree, while those without education are forever stuck in a humble life.

Look at the farmers with dirt-stained backs and faces, the construction workers enduring the scorching sun, and the hawkers selling in the freezing wind. Studying is not for parents, but for yourself.

2 It's not others' excellence that's scary, but those who are better than you are even harder working

Excellent and hardworking people know that there are too many people in this world who are better than themselves. If you don't work hard, you will be eliminated and always chase those ahead.

Life always has setbacks, which can be tiring and discouraging. But excellent people know that if you don't work hard now, you'll be even more tired later. Excellent people don't waste their precious time on those who are less hardworking.

3 Education is not the key, but university is

Because these years in university are unrestrained and allow you to become accustomed to a book-filled life. Once you enter society, you enter the market.

You can do what you want to do, make friends from all over the world, learn more professional knowledge, and broaden your horizons, truly becoming a grown-up.

4 Time is fair, everyone has 24 hours, don't waste it

While others are studying, you're playing games. While others are exercising, you're watching TV. When you're old, others are enjoying their retirement and traveling the world, while you're only busy for making a living.

Don't always think that tomorrow is better, tomorrow is always tomorrow, rely on tomorrow's hope, and ultimately achieve nothing

5 Keep exercising, your body will remember every effort

Don't spend all your time saying you're busy and have no time to exercise, while indulging in games and social media, becoming a person who spends all day on the sofa and in bed.

Exercise not only strengthens your body and relieves stress, but people who persevere in exercise also have willpower and patience to overcome difficulties.

Live with a purpose, and life will reward you.

6 You can lose, but you can't give up

Life is like a roller coaster, with ups and downs, it's not always smooth. One success doesn't mean you'll always be successful.

Try your best to do what you should do, sweat profusely, don't be stuck on temporary failures, believe that if you persevere, fate will reward you.

7 Don't care too much about others' opinions, be yourself

In this world, everyone's thoughts and cognition are different, we can't force others to think the same way as us, or ask them to like us.

Life has countless forms, and there are many ways to live. Children, you should know that you are unique, live as yourself, and why bother with others' opinions?

8 Indulgence is human nature, and restraint is human reason

Child, you say learning is hard, you want to watch TV and play mobile games, you want to waste your time and energy in a dazzling virtual world. I'll tell you, don't choose leisure when you should be working hard, otherwise your future will be full of obstacles.

9 People should learn to rely on themselves, no one else can help you except yourself

'A mountain will not stand without support, and people will not stand without support'. No one will help you unconditionally except your parents. But parents will eventually grow old, and no one will accompany you for life. You should learn to grow up and become more independent.

Learn to rely on yourself, and you become the master of your life. The future depends on you to create. Grab your destiny firmly on your phone, so that you have more possibilities.

10 No matter what, be a kind person

Child, no matter when you are a teacher, a doctor, or any profession, you should always be a kind person.

Whether it's the temptation of money or the trend of interests, don't be blinded by temporary prosperity and hurt those close to you.

The waves rolling over the sea are turbulent and majestic; a life of setbacks and hardships shines brightly. Life is only made by experiencing hardships, and you will see a brilliant landscape.

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