Effort is not for others' admiration, but for the right to choose a life you like.
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Effort is not for anyone to admire, nor is it to be seen by anyone. It's just to always have the ability to jump out of the circles you hate, and have the right to choose, to live a life in the way you like.
As long as you're alive, there's no other choice. The fact that there are so many choices is just about how you choose. Happiness or not depends on yourself.
The stage may be as big as it is, but if you don't come onto the stage, you'll always be an audience. The platform may be as good as it is, but if you don't participate, you'll always be an outsider. Even if you're powerful, if you don't take action, you can only watch others succeed! No one will care about how much effort you've put in, how tired you are, how much you've been hurt, they'll just envy or despise you for where you've ended up.
When people encounter setbacks or unsolvable problems, they detach from reality, indulge in fantasies, and put themselves in imagined worlds, trying to deal with setbacks with fictional ways and gain satisfaction. Daydreams are a kind of fantasy. If daydreams replace meaningful action, they will become a means of escaping reality, and they may also be a sign of mental instability, developing into fantasy syndrome.
Fantasy is beautiful, and reality is cruel. Fantasy is just a feeling. To want to live a successful life, you must be rooted in reality, especially when dealing with people and things, you can't be unrealistic, otherwise it's difficult to solve problems, achieve change and development.
Some things, the more you avoid, the more embarrassing they become. It's better to face them instead, at least you don't have to worry about them all the time.
Some people, the more they get stuck, the more helpless they become. It's better to let go, at least you don't have to be sad all the time.
Often, some things aren't as bad as you think they are. It's because of your timidity or weakness that you've made your life even more difficult.
Often, some people are really not worth it. It's because they're unwilling or unwilling to let go that they've fallen into countless difficulties.
At a person's failure, it's not the influence of objective environment, but the self-limiting psychology has already doomed failure. Self-limiting narrow mind makes a person's chest narrow, a person's vision is narrow, a person's vision is short-sighted and may even cause serious narcissism. People with such psychology are difficult to get along with, and it's easy to hurt others. These people are inherently losers because of self-closure and self-limitation, they are trapped in mental poverty and panic.
Sometimes, some people aren't just unable to do something, it's because they're afraid to choose.
Always remember, there are no absolutes, it's best not to be perfect, even if the worst doesn't go to the end, what you get may not be long-lasting, what you lose may not disappear.
In the eyes of time, there is nothing that can't be passed, if it can't be passed, it's because of yourself. Try a different angle, a different method, a different way of life.
Failure doesn't need a plan, success does need a thorough plan and step by step practice. Throughout history, successful people have two points: one is that they have a clear career goal; two is that they constantly strive towards the goal. Those without goals are like ships sailing blindly, for them any wind is counterwind. If a person has a goal and constantly strives towards it, the whole world will make way for it. Therefore, to succeed, you must start from the details, make a clear, long-term, specific goal for yourself, make good use of time, and go on target, you will arrive at your destination.
Many things are relative. There are reasons for disappointment, and there are ways out of hope. It's just that you've become stuck in a corner.
Learn to be brave, you'll have less difficulty; learn to be strong, you'll have less sadness; learn to be indifferent, you'll have less sorrow; learn to forget, you'll have less burden; learn to let go, you'll have less pain.
In our lives, we will always experience regrets, we will always bear some hardships, our bodies and minds will leave some scars.
But we must not let our hearts become haggard, heavy, numb. Don't be discouraged, don't be panicked, be like a snail that climbs or a bird that flies, we try to grow up, stumble along the way, and then scarred. Keep going, one day you will stand in the brightest place, live the appearance you once longed for.
