People Should First Learn to Conform, Then Learn to Be Different
Wujiang can accommodate people, and Wuhou can carry things. A broad-minded heart will not lose its peace of mind because of external discrepancies. This world was never meant to follow your thoughts; a lot of stubbornness has become an internal entanglement. Learn to be tolerant of the setbacks you encounter; the more you are open-hearted, the more fearless you will be.
Life is not perfect; if you realize you've made a mistake, start again. Don't cover up one mistake with another. The meaning of life is in the process, not the conclusion. Therefore, no one should influence others based on their own experiences and viewpoints, especially since they are not you. Everyone's growth journey is different. The sweet and sour, bitter and spicy of life should be experienced by oneself. Trying is life.
One must first learn to go with the flow, then to be different from the crowd; first learn complexity, then simplicity; first learn to love oneself, then to love others; first learn to love family, then to love friends; first learn how to live, then to experience life; first learn how to be a person, then to hold office; first demand oneself, then demand others; first learn to adapt, then to be independent.
Life will not change because of your complaints; life will not change because of your melancholy. Whether you complain or not, life is the same; whether you are sorrowful or not, life remains unchanged. If you complain too much, you are lamenting yourself; if you are sorrowful, the suffering is still yours. If you cry, life will not weep; if you suffer, life will not be troubled. Since this is the case, why not smile? Since it is like this, why worry? In life, happiness is a lifetime, sadness is also a lifetime; why not open your heart?
