The Way of Dealing for Smart Women!
Silence, sometimes you are misunderstood, and you don't want to argue, so you choose to be silent. It's okay not to be understood by everyone. You don't need to explain yourself to the world. Just be yourself.
Calmness, when you fall to the bottom of life, everyone around you tells you: 'Be strong' and 'Be happy.' Strength is necessary, but happiness? In this situation, it's probably too difficult. After all, who can be happy when you're bleeding from head to toe? But you can at least be calm. Calmly face the situation, calmly handle what needs to be handled.
Bend down, when you have disagreements with others, even verbal conflicts, go home and scrub the floor. Pick up a mop, bend down, kneel with both knees, and wipe every corner of the floor in front of you clean. Sometimes you have to learn to bend down because this action can make you humble. While you're working your body, you're also brightening your mind.Don't think 'what if' you said, life is a long road with countless branches, always making choices. Choosing what major to study, what job to do, whether to marry or not, whether to have children, different choices create completely different lives. You say, 'If I had done this differently, it wouldn't be like this now…' Don't say that anymore. Every crossroads has no truly good or bad choices, as long as you view life as your unique creation, you won't keep dwelling on the past.
Maintain simplicity, because of excessive thinking, you often complicate your life. You're living in the present, but you're always thinking about the past and worrying about the future. Simply live in the present, and the present is already perfect. It's a dream to execute.
Occasionally 'vulgar', eat too many healthy foods, you sometimes want to gnaw on duck tongues and spicy fried chicken, and spicy crayfish. Sometimes you don't actually want to live your life so meaningfully. Life doesn't need to be tied up so tightly.Effort, even if you don't succeed, at least you were beautiful. Many things quietly happen beyond your sight, and they quietly arrange themselves. Let nature take its course. Just do what you should, without regret.
Let go, remain calm, be tolerant, and be grateful, and you become a 'person'.
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