What Will Happen Next for This Couple? Test Your Worries in Love
My friends who are single always yearn for marriage, but is marriage really without worries? Quite the opposite, people in love often have more worries than those who are single.
The worries of single friends are mainly due to feeling lonely when seeing others in couples. However, friends who are in love have all kinds of worries. Some are afraid of their partners cheating, and some are always worried that they aren't good enough etc.
Do you want to know what worries you when you're in love? SumiJun has prepared a test for you.
Below is a beautiful picture, a boy and a girl are about to pass by the corner of the street. What do you think will happen next?
A: A man gives a woman a bouquet of flowers as a gift
B: They bump into each other
C: Nothing will happen
D: They fall in love with each other
The picture comes from: ione
Through this psychological test, you will discover the things you worry about in love.
Have you chosen? Then let's take a look at the diagnosis results!
A: A man gives a woman a bouquet of flowers as a gift
You should be afraid of losing your lover, you will worry too much about giving everything to him. You also seem to always doubt everything you see, you think it may not be true.
Your lover is busy with work lately, so he has less time to care for you. This may make you even more suspicious of his love. If this state continues, your lover will feel pressure, become emotional, and even have the possibility of hurting each other.
In addition, if you don't stop excessive constraints and constraints on your lover, your lover may leave.
It's understandable that you're afraid of being hurt in love, after all, everyone who has a relationship is afraid of it. But the premise of love is to genuinely trust your partner. Instead of bravely 'doubt', give more 'trust'!
B: They bump into each other
In love, you seem to worry about not having confidence in yourself. Since you have a lover, you worry that 'there will be more attractive people around you' that could make your lover leave someday. Are you always worried about this?
You will also worry about 'the lover is too high-profile and 'there's no reason for the lover to like someone like you' etc., self-deprecation.
Even if your lover expresses love for you, your worries and anxieties will not disappear, and you will become emotionally unstable because of self-doubt.
Try to respect your lover's choice. Your self-doubt will only make you more suspicious and jealous, which is not a healthy emotion in a relationship.
C: Nothing will happen
You should worry about not communicating with your lover sufficiently. Once you start dating, you've lost sharing feelings and various things through dialogue.
To establish a good relationship in love, communication is essential. If there is not enough communication, a distance will be created between two people, or they will become just ordinary friends, and it will become boring to be together.
Don't forget that for important people, every day's dialogue is important. Even a simple 'good morning' and 'good night' is enough.
D: They fall in love with each other
You are always immersed in the romantic fantasy world. You should be worrying about asking your lover for unrealistic romantic treatment, right?
You hope your lover will treat you like a princess and receive special treatment, and also expect a sincere and romantic treatment. But your imagined love is difficult because of too much expectation not being met, which will make you unhappy with reality.
Don't 'idealize' your lover, you need a real lover, not the male lead in a TV drama. The sooner you recognize that your lover is a 'real lover' rather than an 'ideal lover', the sooner you can establish a beautiful relationship.
Does this test cover your love worries?
Or do you have other worries?
Remember to share your worries with SumiJun in the comments!
