Three Miao once said, 'I have no time to be young seriously, waiting to understand, only to choose to seriously old,'

In fact, our lives, counted to a hundred years, are no more than three thousand two hundred and seventy-eight days. We are always wasting and consuming the most precious life unconsciously. When we finally realize it, the most beautiful youth has already quietly disappeared.

Cherish yourself, because everything cannot be repeated.

Give up useless social networking, spend time on beautiful things.

As the saying goes: 'An inch of light is an inch of gold, an inch of gold cannot buy an inch of light.' Every wasted inch of time is a wasted life. Only by grasping every minute and every second can we avoid regret.

Human social attributes determine that humans are group animals, so interpersonal communication is indispensable. In order to gather together, people are unwilling to avoid learning to disguise themselves, trying to cater to and adapt to various social rules. After a long time, many people have divided themselves into two selves: one is the 'I' in public, and the other is the inner most true 'I'.

Rarely do people see arguments in public; more often, they see affectionate interactions and enthusiastic chats, as if human warmth is abundant. Beneath these 'harmonious' faces, there may be completely different worlds, scorn, disdain, jealousy, resentment, and all kinds of feelings, but they still pretend to be calm and collected, talking and laughing nonchalantly.

People like this engage in interpersonal communication, the more they are involved, the more they can experience the falseness and cunning of human nature. A small circle contains everyone's privacy, and those without cunning are ridiculed, while those who consider themselves 'opinion leaders' are just boring and good at stirring up discord to highlight their uniqueness.

Philippa was forty years old, but she looked like a high school student, not only with youthful and beautiful appearance, but also full of love for life. Whenever she faced boring gossip among colleagues, she would laugh and ignore it, never getting involved. As a result, when her divorce news was gossiped about throughout the city and her (close friend) spoke out against her, she was still unaware.

Philippa's unwillingness to socialize allowed her more time for herself. She spent time learning and reading with her son, practicing calligraphy and writing articles, and often sent articles about parenting experience to newspapers and online platforms, which were frequently adopted. Later, she became a freelance editor.

Weekends are spent accompanying her children and family for hiking, although they don't have enough money to go to further places, every outing brings laughter and deep reflection on life.

A person should be clean in their heart, away from gossip and comparison, and enjoy a quiet life, finding their own circle, which is wisdom and a way of survival.

Be good to yourself, break free from negative emotions.

When people are trapped in emotional turmoil, it is like burying their heads in the snow. Emotions are never a solution, only bringing more problems.

Just like the angry camel, walking in the desert, tired and hungry, it is already in a predicament. But the restless emotions make it kick against the glass, not to stop the injury immediately, but to anger even more, not only failing to shake off the glass, but also hurting it deeper, and finally, more and more blood flowed out, which attracted terrifying flesh-eating ants and ended its life in a terrible way.

Ultimately, the camel was killed by its own bad emotions. Often, we are just like this restless camel.

Adults, who are shouldering heavy responsibilities, who are enduring hardships, if at this time, they are betrayed and abandoned by their lovers, or encounter business difficulties, or suffer from sudden health problems, it is a fatal blow.

Truly intelligent people know how to go with the flow, accept all the gifts given by life, if there are difficulties, they think of ways to overcome difficulties, because the earlier you respond, the more opportunities you may have. It is better to not complain and wait for things to turn out for the best, but it is futile to expect things to happen by themselves. The more you complain, the worse the situation will be.

Maintaining a calm and peaceful mindset, not being influenced by emotions, is a practice that must be followed throughout life. At each stage of life, there are different life lessons, and many challenges. Only by being calm and composed can we discover the beauty of life, experience the joy of overcoming difficulties, and feel the joy of growth.

Learn to reconcile with life, just ask for half satisfaction in everything.

Life can't always go as you wish, just ask for half satisfaction in everything.

says: 'People with high moral character are always commonplace.' In fact, life is like a flower, it opens and fades quietly. Although I am ordinary, I am proud of it.

Genius is only a small number, most people can only have an ordinary life. Recognizing this point takes a lot of effort, because people are unwilling to be ordinary, so they are willing to spend half their lives to challenge themselves, but it's worrying that after countless failures, they still refuse to face 'everyone will be ordinary' , and they will spend their lives being unhappy.

Because ordinary can also be proud, 'A thousand acres of fertile land is only three meals a day, ten thousand mansions are only to sleep on a three-foot-long bed.' Originally, people only need so much, as long as they live healthily, be loved sincerely, it is an unparalleled wealth.

What constitutes happiness? It's not about how much money you have. Of course, if you can earn money by your own abilities, it's full of confidence. After getting rich, you can still be content with being ordinary, and this kind of life is truly free and unrestrained.

A person can define self-love in many ways. It's not just about not being ostentatious and not making a show of it in good times, but more importantly, it's about not giving up in bad times.

Comedy master Charlie Chaplin wrote in 'When I learned to love myself' : 'When I truly started to love myself, I realized that all the pain and emotion were just reminders: live, don't violate your own heart. That's what we call 'truth'.'

May everyone who struggles, is lost, and is confused take a moment to listen to the true voice in their hearts and work hard for the life they really want.

From today on, eat well, sleep well, and do what you want to do. Let others say whatever they want.

Author: Wind Light as Cloud

Your happiness, my blessing

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