Every Family Has Its Troubles, Everyone Has Their Difficult Melodies
Maintain a calm state of mind, and happiness will always be present. Trees want to be still, but the wind never ceases. The one who can truly redeem themselves is not the flowing of time, nor the help of others, but their own good attitude. In life, we always try to compare ourselves to others, always try to judge success or failure, not realizing that highs and lows, ups and downs, success and failure, gains and losses are all the flavors of life. Fame and fortune come and go; joy and sorrow, glory and shame, are all fleeting. Life is like a cup of tea, a sense of tranquility, a touch of detachment, a state of calmness.
Having sailed through countless storms, we only seek a small boat, letting it drift with the current. Having met countless people, we only wish to find kindred spirits within our dreams. We once yearned for the drama of fate, only to realize that the most beautiful scenery in life lies in our inner calm and composure. We once desperately sought external validation, only to discover that the world belongs to oneself, with no relevance to others.
Don't dwell on the past, don't crave the future, focus on the present, and this brings peace. Let what is meant to come, come; let what is meant to go, go; don't envy others, don't pity ourselves; don't cling to the past, don't fantasize about the future, grasp the present, sow good seeds, and ask only about cultivation, not about harvest. Don't force things, don't seize unfairly, the key is to accept what comes. Don't deceive heaven, don't deceive people, don't deceive oneself; a gentleman is sincere and therefore at ease; don't blame heaven, don't blame people, don't blame oneself; a wise person accepts what comes and thus is always happy.
Life is hard, don't ridicule others; every family has its difficult scriptures, everyone has their difficult melodies; even the most brilliant people have their moments of cold hardship and sorrow; even the happiest people have their moments of helplessness and difficulty.
