Teach Children Kindness: It's About Parents Understanding 3 Things
Justice is the dew of life, and kindness is the sunlight that pierces the darkness. Because of justice and kindness, the world is full of love, and the years are filled with warmth.
Justice is a wisdom, and principled kindness is a kind of learning. Teach children to be kind, so that they can learn to protect themselves, and parents must understand three things!
1, Kindness is a precious light of life.
Recently, in Sichuan Xichang, a kitten was trapped on the eaves of a convenience store, shivering and unable to move. Fortunately, two elementary school students were passing by on their way home and heard the kitten's faint cries.
They first raised their feet to reach out their hands to catch the kitten, but the kitten was terrified and didn't dare to jump down. In a moment of crisis, the two clever children used their hands to hold up an umbrella, and finally, the kitten bravely jumped into the umbrella.
This small action hides a great deal of love. The children didn't hold an umbrella, but the whole world's goodwill. Kindness is a quiet umbrella that opens for you in the rain; it is a lamp that suddenly lights up for you in the darkness; it is a pair of helping hands when you are in danger.
2, Kindness should be done within one's capabilities.
Your justice should be done within your capabilities. Before being a hero, you must fully consider your current safety, so as not to be harmed by bad people. You can respond with more clever ways.
Having a sense of justice does not mean taking risky measures. If you cannot solve the problem yourself, you can seek help from teachers, police, and other adults.
I just hope you become a healthy and happy ordinary person. Therefore, when you exercise your right to be kind, you must be careful to do within your capabilities. After all, everyone's life has only one chance, and your life is not just for you, you also have family who love you.
3, You should uphold principles.
I think you are kind, but I don't agree with the idea of 'suffering is blessing'. Sometimes, excessive concession can turn your kindness into weakness.
Although we don't want to speculate on people's malicious intentions, we should have jealous intentions and mistrust.
So it's better to 'be a kind person with edges and sharpness, knowing how to use wisdom to punish evil and promote goodness, being a good person among good people, and showing your sharpness and fierceness among bad people.'
I hope every child can retain kindness while learning to protect themselves.
So, kindness must have its limits! When a person is unwilling to improve and constantly seeks help, please stop giving kindness!
