To Be Human, You Need to Learn to Choose and Give Up
Being human,
you need to learn to be silent, and understand how to choose and give up.
Silence is wisdom, not weakness.
Choosing and giving up is a selection, not cowardice.
Silence is not about not saying anything,
but about understanding inwardly,
knowing that speaking too much is useless.
Choosing and giving up is not giving in,
but about letting go and accepting things as they are,
knowing what's most important.
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Life,
cannot be perfect.
There will always be losses and disappointments,
There will always be setbacks and shocks.
How happy or unhappy you are depends on your attitude,
How lucky or unlucky you are depends on your mood.
If your heart is open, you will be easy.
If you are content with what you have, you will be happy.
Learn to be silent, without pretending.
Don't trust everyone's words,
your own heart understands.
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Being human,
Too much talking often leads to trouble. Silence is rare and precious.
Hesitation and indecision make it difficult to make choices.
Only by pretending to be deaf and dumb and speaking little can you avoid trouble.
Only by rationally handling things without getting attached can you avoid disputes and reduce worries.
Some confessions are too pale.
Some people are too possessive and alluring.
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Look through and don't criticize, keep things simple and clear.
Just know what you need to know.
Distinguish between truth and falsehood, and let your heart decide.
Too much talking will offend people.
If you are too rational, you will be reserved.
Learn to be silent, understand how to choose and give up,
Don't hurt others' hearts, don't hurt yourself.
Being human is difficult, life is hard,
many things cannot be changed and are difficult to control.
You need to learn to be patient and tolerant.
You need to learn to let go and forgive.
Swallow your bitterness and endure your tears.
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People are different, it's hard to tell who's genuine and who's not.
Don't judge good and bad, just let it happen.
Look through it, don't expose it.
Look clearly, don't say it's clear.
Talking too much brings trouble, clarifying things hurts feelings.
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Distinguish between who is real and who is fake, let time reveal it.
See who is good and who is bad, experience will show it.
Be kind to others, but protect your own heart.
Learn to be silent, understand how to choose and give up,
Don't hurt others' hearts, don't hurt yourself.
Being human is difficult, life is hard,
many things cannot be changed and are difficult to control.
You need to learn to be patient and tolerant.
You need to learn to let go and forgive.
Swallow your bitterness and endure your tears.
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Silence is wisdom, not everyone can learn it.
Choosing and giving up are not things everyone can do.
Wise people are not afraid of rumors, remain silent.
Strong people don't fear challenges, they face them head-on.
Life is difficult, life is hard,
but as long as you can learn to be silent and choose, even the most difficult things will bring a smile,
even suffering can bring happiness!
