Truly Outstanding People Understand the Relationship Between Giving and Receiving

Today, Jingu is accompanying you on your lifelong growth journey on day 2294

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About Life

As is: Without thoroughly piercing through one's bones, how can one appreciate the fragrance of plum blossoms? All gains are linked to certain sacrifices. Without sacrifice and hardship, it's difficult to achieve success. During life's journey, whether it's peaceful and smooth or filled with difficulties, we should face it with composure.

As is: Learn self-awareness, recognize your strengths and weaknesses. No one is perfect, correctly recognizing your advantages and discovering your disadvantages is essential. Only by truly understanding yourself can you have the opportunity to improve and excel.

As is: We are not born perfect, but we should be able to accept ourselves imperfectly. Don't give up until the very last moment. 'Mountains and rivers are shrouded in mist, but there are always villages with bright willows and blooming flowers.' Sometimes, just persisting for an extra minute can bring a turning point. Success in life isn't about defeating enemies, it's about self-improvement. As long as we make progress a little bit every day, that's success. There are only those who can't figure things out, not those who can't find a way through.

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About Growth

As is: In Jingu's lifelong growth dictionary entry '260: Life Realm,' it's said: When doing various things, there's a different significance to them, and when these significances are combined, they form a whole, creating a life realm. People with different levels of understanding will give different meanings to the same things. Everyone has their own life realm, which may not be the same as anyone else's.

Everyone understands life differently, and if you do what you believe is right, you'll be fine.

As is: If you can complete everything you should do before a vacation, your vacation should be much better. However, procrastination is common. If a person can consistently execute according to his/her own plan, every use of time will be clear and defined, life would be wonderful.

As is: Desire can motivate you to move forward, but only 'moderate' desire. If you have unrealistic or excessive desires, you'll only struggle in them and won't find satisfaction.

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Self-Reflection

As is: Zhang Ailing said in 'The Story of Us,' 'Are you young? It doesn't matter. You'll be old in two years, and youth is not rare.' A lifetime is long or short, it's only about 70 years. It seems like just a blink of an eye. Old people die, middle-aged people get older, young people enter middle age, and new children are born. People replace each other, generation after generation, we're just ordinary people passing through this red wall and black tile, born, dying, and returning to the ashes of history, never to be remembered.

As is: Human life is extremely short and limited. From a spatial perspective, humans are small, like a microscopic speck of dust in the vast universe; from a temporal perspective, humans are brief, their existence is a fleeting moment in the long history. In this limited time, do things you like and have meaning.

As is: Enjoying pleasure can be addictive, a normal life is the same for everyone, we all come from the same place and go to the same place. In limited time, do meaningful things.

As is: Understanding the ability to think from another's perspective, different angles of thought will result in different thinking styles. When interacting with others, the most valuable thing is to understand and stand in the other person's position, see their difficulties, and express kindness and tolerance.

Organizer: He Ni, Jingu's creator.