The best feeling is when you need me and you're there.

There's a very interesting conversation here.

A: My wife is very capable, she earns money herself, she takes care of her kids herself, and she handles everything.

B: In our village, she's a widow.

If a woman is very independent and doesn't trouble you, what use do you have of her? In her world, you might as well be unimportant.

Every woman wants her partner to be secure. That security means having a plan, responding to everything. But some men don't know when a woman needs them.

Lonely and isolated

Many women won't proactively contact you. That's not because they don't miss you; it's because they're unsure of your importance to you. They think: 'If you have time, you'll find me. If you don't have time, why bother with me?' Women are like water; if you give them zero degrees, they'll freeze; if you give them one hundred degrees, they'll boil.

It's said that the degree to which a person cares about you and the speed of his response are proportional. If he takes a long time to reply or doesn't reply, he won't give you a second chance to 'cold-shoulder' him.

One fact that women cannot deny is that if a man spends time chatting with them every day, they will eventually fall in love. The 'love at first sight' probably refers to this.

You need to be there for her when she's sick.

Being sick is when a person is most vulnerable and most in need of care. When you care for her, she will surely be touched.

A woman says, 'My period is coming.'

A man says, 'Drink more hot water.'

And her heart grows cold. When you neglect her when she needs you the most, she no longer needs you.

Let's look at 'Dream of the Red Chamber'. Baoyu is a lazy young man who loves to hang out with girls and is a 'root of misfortune'. He often infuriates his father, who wants to beat him up. But Daiyu loves this 'devil' because he understands all her needs.

After the sun sets, Daiyu comes out. Baoyu says, 'Although the sun has set, the warmth hasn't dissipated. We should be worried about heatstroke.'

Daiyu is sick, and Baoyu comes to see her in the pouring rain at night.

Baoyu picks up a candle and examines Daiyu's face carefully. He says, 'Your complexion is better today.'

He asks ZiJuan, 'Have you taken your medicine? How much rice did you eat today?'

Daiyu says, 'I'm fine today, thank you for coming to see me three times a day. It's raining, and I'm resting now. You go back, and you'll come again tomorrow.'

Baoyu checks his watch and says, 'It's late, and you're tired.'

ZiJuan says, 'Every time I come to see the girl take medicine, I always taste whether it's bitter or sweet, and before I leave, I always sigh in our courtyard, and people don't understand and think he's crazy. But if you listen carefully, he's praying for her.'

Because Baoyu understands and cares for Daiyu, she's touched and dependent on him.

When she's wronged, she needs you.

The best relationship is to turn a person into a child. If a woman in love never grows up, she has found the right person.

If a woman is willing to tell you her grievances, you are surely her most trusted and closest person in her heart.

Conversely, if a woman never expresses negative emotions to you, and always smiles gently, congratulations, you've lost her.

The most beautiful thing about love is when you need you to be there.