Bai Yan Song: A life dominated by utilitarianism leads to disaster.
From when it started, our world has become increasingly restless and utilitarian,All things can be divided into three, six and nine, and people have lost emotional connections, but gained utilization and exchange,Utilitarianism permeates life, hoping to become erudite when reading a book, making connections with celebrities is to calculate the number of profits, not missing any opportunity to gain for oneself,A life dominated by utilitarianism is often a climb followed by a devastating fall,01
Too much utilitarianism only because of seeing too far,At 30, Mr. Yang is an engineer with a postgraduate degree.To save money, he always buys short rides on high-speed trains and has skipped 480 trips, saving two thousand plus dollars,The money was saved, but human quality and future were lost,Mr. Qian Lizhen, a professor at Peking University, once said:We are cultivating a group of sophisticated egoists, they are high-IQ, worldly, old-fashioned, good at performance, understand cooperation, and are more adept at utilizing systems to achieve their goals,Mr. Xiong Hao, an lecturer at Fudan University, discussed this phenomenon in a program and said: these children seeking profit is like playing chess, but this chessboard is too small, and their values are not broad enough,Many people's utilitarianism and eagerness for success are because they see too little,Obsessive and useless social networking and networking, neglecting self-improvement,For short-term profits, they lost the most important qualities for human behavior,Calculating and scheming outshine genuine human connection, losing the purest connection between people,Mr. Yu Minhong once said: only when utilitarianism and short-sightedness disappear, we can see the direction of life,Amidst the complex and chaotic path, a utilitarian shortcut will solve many troubles for you,But those shortcuts you pursue will only narrow your path, and even lead you to nowhere,02
Host Bai Yan Song is frequently asked: Which book has had the greatest influence on you?When everyone expects an accurate answer, Mr. Bai Yan Song said:'Everyone wants to get a utilitarian result, 'the most useful' is the goal, but I think, besides the Chinese Dictionary, all the books I have read are like constantly flowing into the river, gradually helping you grow, becoming vast and profound. How do you know which stream contributed to the Yellow River and the Yangtze River?Similarly, I have drawn so much nutrition from books along the way, and I cannot define which stream shaped me. What really matters is the fun of reading, not the results after reading,Bai Yan Song's insight extends beyond reading,At 32, Mr. Bai Yan Song couldn't afford a house, but he didn't become utilitarian, instead he lived a diligent life.Life is always the same, there are no good things, and there are no bad things, and the biggest difference between people is how they view life,Life shouldn't be measured by utilitarianism, but rather by the feelings you experience,Curiosity and anticipation can make ordinary days shine, while utilitarianism and restlessness can easily turn ordinary days into bad days,A baby averages around 400 smiles a day, while a 35-year-old adult only has 15,As we grow older, happiness and well-being become increasingly difficult to achieve because we are too focused on desired outcomes and constantly experience the gap between what we want and what we can't achieve,The expanding desires and utilitarianism transform into a dazzling but fragile dream, which collapses at the first touch,To be happy, you must first abandon utilitarianism, as writer Zhang Jiawei says:Eat when you're hungry, sleep when you're sleepy, chat when you want to chat, and accompany friends when you want to accompany. Let everything be done in its own way, focus on the moment, and do everything wholeheartedly,Rather than thinking about others' delicacies and delicacies when eating, thinking about refunds when sleeping, and showing off when reading, thinking about donations when taking a bath, and constantly thinking about money when chatting,03
Your utilitarianism is destroying you,When Mr. Lin Zhiying was on vacation in foreign countries, it coincided with the local holding a book festival, and whoever read the most in two weeks would receive a gift,Mr. Lin Zhiying's children only read three books in one week, while other children didn't read any books,He was very happy and encouraged his children to read more books to break the record,Unexpectedly, without waiting for two weeks, the organizers gave the first prize to Mr. Lin Zhiying's children, and suggested that Mr. Lin Zhiying's children give up the event, and the prize would still be awarded,Mr. Lin Zhiying was angry and asked the staff why, and the staff said:Your child just wants to be number one, without feeling the joy of reading, reading shouldn't be utilitarian, he will make other children a bad example. Only he can exit, so that other children can read safely,Mr. Lin Zhiying immediately let his child quit the competition and lamented his educational purpose,When judging things, we are too obsessed with 'usefulness',Whether to fall in love, whether to pursue hobbies, how to live, all become not purely,Life shouldn't be measured by utilitarianism, but by the feelings you experience,Curiosity and anticipation can make ordinary days shine, while utilitarianism and restlessness can easily turn ordinary days into bad days,A baby averages around 400 smiles a day, while a 35-year-old adult only has 15,As we grow older, happiness and well-being become increasingly difficult to achieve because we are too focused on desired outcomes and constantly experience the gap between what we want and what we can't achieve,The expanding desires and utilitarianism transform into a dazzling but fragile dream, which collapses at the first touch,To be happy, you must first abandon utilitarianism, as writer Zhang Jiawei says:Eat when you're hungry, sleep when you're sleepy, chat when you want to chat, and accompany friends when you want to accompany. Let everything be done in its own way, focus on the moment, and do everything wholeheartedly,Rather than thinking about others' delicacies and delicacies when eating, thinking about refunds when sleeping, and showing off when reading, thinking about donations when taking a bath, and constantly thinking about money when chatting,04

It's a line from the movie 'Invincible':We fight for the world, not to change the world, but to prevent the world from changing us,Utilitarianism is like a potent medicine that can bring immense satisfaction, but it also injects endless sorrow into life, leading to life's disasters,May our lives in the future always remember why we started, less utilitarianism, and more perseverance in things that don't have a reason,With you.
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