My First Time Visiting My Boyfriend's Home: I Bought 20 Pounds of Pork as a Gift, But He Didn't Even Eat a Bite
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Poor people can have poor lifestyles, but they cannot deviate from reality, especially in terms of dealing with people and receiving guests. Your actions cannot completely disregard the feelings of others, otherwise don't blame others for disrespecting you, don't blame others for looking down on you.
Such as the matter of exchanging gifts, even if you can't afford to buy equivalent gifts, you can't treat others the same way you are treated, but you should make an effort, you should respect others, unless you have no dealings with anyone, this aspect needs to be paid attention to.
Especially when it comes to marriage issues, you must not show timidity, you must not show weakness, you must not feel superior just because you are poor, otherwise it is easy to ruin the marriage.
Below is a reader who once faced a marriage that was ruined by the poor ideas of the male party, let's take a look at how it happened.
Donglin Teacher, hello:
Before I met my ex-boyfriend, I had contact with poor people, I also had friends with less family conditions, they gave me a very good feeling, they were very kind, generous and knew how to consider others' feelings.
My ex-boyfriend gave me a good impression at first, about the same as I met other people with poor family backgrounds. It was precisely because I felt his qualities and kindness, I fell in love with him. Many friends said I was compromising with him, but I didn't feel it, I thought as long as he was worthy of my dedication, my dedication would be meaningful.
Putting aside other factors, let's talk about our feelings alone, we are willing to get married. However, marriage is something that cannot only consider the feelings of the two of us, but also whether the two families have problems needs to be considered.
I don't think there's anything wrong with my family, because no matter from which aspect, my family's conditions are better than his. As for his family situation, I guessed it should be okay except for lack of money.,
However, when it comes to marriage, you need to consider it comprehensively, it must be a comprehensive door-to-door match, it must be a dimension you can accept more than you can't, if it's the other way around, you shouldn't let such a marriage begin.
Marriage is a matter that must consider door-to-door matching and is a comprehensive door-to-door matching, it must be a dimension you can accept more than you can't, if it's the other way around, you shouldn't let such a marriage begin.
Written by Donglin Xiting, if you have a story, come find me.
If you are the woman in the above situation, would you choose to break up?
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