True love can't go on anymore, just say goodbye properly

This thing of emotion, has never been clearly defined, nor has it followed logic. People who love each other may not hold hands and walk side by side, let alone live together until old age. People who don't love each other might just walk hand in hand. Therefore, whether it's true love or a compromise, it's an inextricable fate in life.

Fate, it's possible to make you happy for a lifetime, and it could also torment you for a lifetime. No matter what, a person's life cannot be driven by whims; once you're together, it's necessary to persevere in emotions, even to the point of exhaustion, and even to hold on until the end.

Someone once asked me: 'If you truly can't make it work anymore, how should you break up without hurting both parties?' The answer is to keep a calm attitude, to sincerely wish each other well, and to say goodbye properly.

However, no matter how you break up, it will cause sadness. People are not plants, who could be without feelings!

The mindset during a breakup is generally divided into two types: one is to hate it to the bone, hoping the other person disappears without a trace and never meets again; the other is to remain connected like a broken string, and still cherish the other person in their heart, often moistened with tears.

Emotions are like this, as the Tang Dynasty poet Li Shangyin said: 'When we meet, it's hard to part; when we part, it's also hard. The east wind is powerless, and the flowers are all withered. A silkworm dies, and the silk is finally finished; a wax candle burns out, and the tears begin to dry.'

In terms of emotions, there are few people with broad minds, and it's difficult to have a broad mind. The deeper the love, the more intense the hatred. This statement has some truth. People who have truly loved each other, no one can easily wave goodbye after a breakup, severing their emotions and shedding their feelings. Most people are still saddened or resentful when they first break up.

The world is often difficult to satisfy our wishes. When passion fades, disappointment covers all the days. It's impossible to continue if you don't say goodbye.