Holding Back and Not Contacting Makes It Easier to Get Over
A relationship that has reached the point of breaking up. It's a thing no one wants to see. However, at this point, it's also something that cannot be avoided. So, you will eventually have to face it.
And when you face it, you will inevitably be sad. Sadness is certain, because you once loved someone.
And because you 'once loved', you don't want to make the other person sad. Therefore, most true lovers, even when they reach the point of breaking up, will do 'goodbyes'.
Even if it's difficult for you to be sad, you have to pretend to be strong in front of the other person. Perhaps this is a little uncomfortable. But it's the only thing you can do.
Of course, a breakup will hurt both parties. However, things in love are often difficult to explain.
Although everyone's reasons for breaking up are different. But when you reach this point, sadness is inevitable.
You will still miss each other after breaking up.
But you will put the past relationship in your heart. When it's dark and quiet, you will still remember. You want to contact them, but when you think about it, what can you say?
Perhaps it's awkward.
'Hold back and don't contact, and you won't be so sad.'Yes, even if you're sad, you can only heal these wounds yourself.
Perhaps the other person is also sad.
Some people can't help it, they continue to contact. Besides adding awkwardness, it also breeds other troubles. Constant reunions and separations can make people even more miserable.
I think the reason for breaking up is that there are problems between you. If these problems aren't solved, even if you reunite, you will still end up breaking up,
Yes, it's broken. From some angles, it means that you and the other person are not compatible. At this time, no matter how much you miss them, you have to bear it.
After the breakup, you have to tell yourself: tidy up your mood, and live actively. Whether it's love or life, you have to learn to accept it.That's how life is, and love is like that. When you break up, it means you don't have a destiny. We have to let go.
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