You're Too Kind - 5 Things You Shouldn't Help With
Be kind, but also learn to exercise prudence and judgment. Don't show off your goodness, don't be a show-off, don't always be a good guy, there are 5 types of things in life that you shouldn't help, otherwise you're hurting yourself,
1. Don't help yourself with things you're not capable of doing,
In life, don't trouble yourself. Recognize your own abilities, don't be reckless, no one will laugh at you, it's just your own inner feelings. There are many things you can't change, you need to learn to accept reality, don't be reckless and make things worse. Helping beyond your capabilities is a mistake; politely decline and say you can't help,
2. Don't help those who harm others and bring misfortune to themselves,
In life, don't interfere in the affairs of those who are harmful. If someone intends to use your kindness to scheme against others, be wary. It's better to be cautious than to be kind without considering the consequences. Having a bit of a reserve is not wrong, otherwise you'll take on the consequences yourself and feel remorseful,
3. Don't help with decisions made for others,
Don't meddle in other people's affairs, especially when they're making decisions for others. If someone takes your advice, they must take responsibility for their own choice. If you intervene and make the decision for them, you're responsible for the resulting consequences. Therefore, think carefully before making a decision,
4. Don't help with financial or beneficial matters,
Kindness also needs principles. Don't help with everything. There's a saying that's very good: 'When you see someone making a mistake, if you can't help, not stepping on their toes is also kindness; when you see someone sad, if you don't comfort them, laughing at their misfortune is also kindness; when you see someone in trouble, if you don't help, not exploiting their situation is also kindness; when you see someone needing help with work, if you can't assist, not creating trouble is also kindness; when you see the country in need, if you can't contribute, not becoming a traitor is also kindness.'
Regarding financial or beneficial matters, don't blindly help; be cautious with risky matters. Don't blindly trust others, people's hearts are unpredictable; once you touch upon legal issues, it's too late to regret,
5. Don't help those who don't appreciate your kindness,
In life, it's hard to know people! It's harder to draw a dragon or a tiger than to draw a bone; know people's hearts, not their faces. People's hearts are like snakes, they'll swallow elephants if they're greedy. Kindness given with bad intentions will harm yourself. It's better to be loyal to yourself than to let others make you feel disheartened. It's better to give kindness to a dog than to humans,
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