Ren Zhengfei: We must acknowledge the objective differences between people, otherwise it will cause pain.
In fact, much of people's happiness, frustration, and pain stems from comparison, because of the gap, there is jealousy because of the gap, some say, jealousy is also a kind of driving force for human progress.
But the problem is that jealousy can indeed stimulate a person's ambition, but it is also easy to trigger the bad side of human nature. In this world, how many are unwilling to see others succeed – especially those who are better than themselves?
I think that kind of wanting to build a career and achieve greatness is a good comparison, they are opposed to mediocrity, heroes also have vanity, when they win against their opponents, they will have a great sense of accomplishment and joy.
More comparison is not so good, it's all about highlighting one's superiority.
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To have a happy life, we must admit the objective gap between people, otherwise it will cause pain.
This is what I understood from Zeng Zhiang's recent speech, as he said, whether it is entrepreneurship, management, or life attitude, Zeng Zhiang's thoughts and experience can all provide us with great inspiration and reference value.
Entrepreneurship faces competition, life also needs to participate in competition, you can dismiss yourself as not interested in comparison. But you can't help but be influenced by comparison, especially when you are in a backward situation.
The key is whether you see the truth and mature, or deceive yourself.
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People have gaps, we must admit the existence of the gap, a person must have a sense of satisfaction with their environment, and not constantly compare themselves.
Zeng Zhiang said that everyone's efforts are not the same, and the right judgment is necessary to play a role.
For example, 'A colleague has progressed, creating a gap, we should judge whether we have played our strengths. If we have, we shouldn't compare ourselves; if we haven't, we should think of ways to play our strengths better.'
This is the right attitude.
In the short and long life, it's not enough to just strive for one's own happiness, life should have a greater pursuit, so as to have great happiness and satisfaction.
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The greatest self-interest is altruism, altruism can help us sail to the shore of happiness.
With all my best wishes.
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