Silence is the most ruthless revenge.As the saying goes, a gentleman does not show his face, and showing your face is not a gentleman. This refers to the fact that masters generally do not show off their abilities and understand self-cultivation.Yes, blatant display of talent is not a good thing. Careful speech and action are the best way to live.I really like this passage:
Whose face is as calm as clouds and wind, who knows how tightly their teeth bite?
Sponsored by isok.coShorten the links behind every storyUse isok.co to create clean URLs, QR codes and real-time source analytics for campaigns.Create tracked linksWhoever walks with the wind, who knows if there are still bruises on their knees.Whoever smiles without a heart or soul, no one knows that they cry silently when they weep.You can only achieve a certain level of success through painstaking effort behind the scenes.Man, either mundane or lonely!Along the way, there have been rumors, slander, and smears, but I have gradually learned not to show off.Sometimes, silence is not shyness or lack of gratitude, but the desire not to let a casual word become a weapon for others to harm you. No matter how good you are, someone will always say three or four words.If you can't make everyone like you, just focus on doing yourself, and be at ease with yourself. When others praise you, silence is a good gentleman's demeanor, a slight smile is a return, and it is important to have self-awareness.When others despise you, silence is a silent counterattack, without any words, your composure can make others feel ashamed.When others achieve success, silence is a blessing in your heart, not overly enthusiastic but genuine.When you fail to achieve success, silence is a help, don't become a cheering squad that lets others 'you finish first, then I'll start'. 544px; white-space: normal; min-height: 1em; font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; Silence is the best explanation
There used to be a temple famous for a string of Buddhist beads worn by the Buddha, so people flocked to worship there.But the place where the beads were displayed was only known to the temple's abbot and his seven disciples.The abbot felt that he was getting old and wanted to pass on his Dharma to one of the disciples.But he didn't want to see that the beads would be lost, so he called the disciples to the backyard and asked, 'Whoever took the beads, if you return them, I won't pursue it, and the Buddha won't blame you.' Everyone looked at each other in confusion and shook their heads.A week passed, and the beads were still missing. The abbot said, 'Forget it, forget it. Whoever admits it, that's his.' But after seven days, no one admitted it.'Then why do you carry the blame of stealing?' ”'These few days, everyone is suspicious, and there are grievances between people. As long as someone admits it, others will be relieved. Besides, the Buddha is still there.'The abbot smiled, took out the 'lost' beads and put them on this disciple.Not everyone needs to explain himself, and it's useless to explain to those who don't understand.
Water is silent, and people are stable and silent.Silence is the composure of smiling through rumors and gossip, the clarity of remaining unmoved in the face of intrigue and deception, and the broad-mindedness of accepting things as they are.After a lifetime, you learn to be silent.Often, we rush to express ourselves, hoping to let it all out, but ignore whether the other person wants to listen, and whether the words hit the other person's pain points.
Sponsored by isok.coSee which shares bring real readersCompare traffic by channel, geo and device with stable short links from isok.co.Explore analyticsIt often ends a relationship, and then we learn the lesson 'Words are silver, silence is gold'. In the future, learn to keep your mouth shut, don't say meaningless words.Appropriate silence is a practice, and it is also a cultivation.Long ago, Master Han asked Shi Shi, 'Some people slander me, deceive me, insult me, laugh at me, look down on me, demean me, cheat me, and lie to me. How should I handle it?'Shi Shi said, 'Just tolerate them, let them, ignore them, and wait a few years, then you'll see.'It's useless to use other people's methods to deal with other people's problems.After experiencing half a lifetime, you begin to understand what is truly yours and what is most important to you. Those irrelevant and trivial things have become ripples on the surface of your life, and eventually they will return to calm.When you are at a low point, don't bother anyone. Be a silent mute, be steady, and you will achieve what you want in time.Life is like this, you must be patient and persevere, and those who are outstanding will have a period of silence.When people look back, those days when they can only say 'words are silver, silence is gold' must have been so quiet and peaceful.Good or bad things eventually become the past.In the future, I wish you don't compete or fight, don't be arrogant or humble, remain at ease, and those who are outstanding will flourish. I wish you have a thousand sails returning, time will pass without change, learn to be silent, cherish words, and be concise.
