Choose for Yourself
Don't chase after a single horse; use the time spent chasing it to plant grass. When spring blossoms bloom, you'll have a whole herd of horses to choose from. Don't try to curry favor with one person; use the time you have without genuine friends to improve yourself and your abilities. When the time is right, a large group of friends will be available for you to choose from. Enriching yourself is more powerful than pleasing others.
Never indulge in complacency and get by with just getting by. Those who can shelter you from the wind and rain can also hide you from the sun. Only by becoming stronger can you truly create your own sky.
If you don't make an effort to live the life you want now, you'll spend a lot of time dealing with a life you don't want.
Life's beauty comes from experience, not from waiting. The happiest thing is not to live like others, but to live more like yourself after making an effort.
A note to yourself: Don't eat idle gossip, don't look at frowning faces; don't hide your own shortcomings, don't expose others' faults; don't lose your childlike innocence, don't show flirtatiousness; don't mock the poor, don't owe people money; don't seek approval from others, don't attract annoying people.
A beggar may not be jealous of a millionaire, but he might be jealous of a beggar with a higher income. Without a broader perspective, you'll get caught up in your current circle; with a broader perspective, you'll look down on the people and things around you.
Be busy, busy to the point where you don't have time to think about trivial things. Many things will fade away quietly this way. Time may not prove everything, but it will certainly give you a clearer understanding.
You should grow up, you should try to mature. Abandon some things you once thought were inseparable, even if this process is long and difficult. Just treat it as a light turned off before sleep; the sun will always rise.
Although your savings may not make you rich and powerful, it can give you the strongest support when you want to turn and leave someone or a situation; it won't hold you back. You're saving not money, but your confidence!
Don't always think about pleasing others. The more you care about what others think, the more humble you'll be. Only by pleasing yourself and letting others please you will you have more value. A life is not long, remember: Be good to yourself.
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