All bumpy things are due to excessive insistence/demands.

Fate, coming and going since ancient times, sung as a poem. Meeting is fate, also a separation. Three lives are destiny. The distance between ends is very great, the Milky Way cannot stop two souls. One, far-off, rushing to meet; two, money like dung, love steadfast, comparable to gold; three, disregarding life and death, like a thousand-year chant, shaking the earth; four, conjoined hearts, love mutual, like youth. Without Wuzhi Mountain, not clouds; fate comes and goes, all follow you.

Life's greatest wealth is health, life's greatest happiness is contentment. Life's greatest enemy is oneself. Life's greatest failure is arrogance. Life's greatest foolishness is deception. Life's greatest mistake is self-deprecation. Life's greatest pain is obsession. Life's most dangerous is greed. Life's most troublesome is fame and fortune. Life's greatest bankruptcy is despair. Life's largest debt is human debt. Life's greatest gift is forgiveness.
Go with the flow, life is beautiful when you let go. Rivers, mountains and streams flow naturally, their beauty comes from following the flow. Life, there are always some things, forced and unwilling, eventually causing pain. Deep or shallow fate, already destined. Everything that can come together will eventually come together naturally; those that must be separated, no one can force them to be together. Like water and fire. Open your mind, be lighthearted, and everything will naturally come together.

All troublesome things are due to over-stretching. Initially, perhaps just for a passionate encounter, but later become stubborn, even oblivious, ultimately creating an indelible pain. Don't over-care about some people, don't over-value some things, go with the flow, face it with the best attitude. This world is like this: often in the face of the things we care about most, we have the least value.