The Most Precious Friendship Isn't About Constant Chatting, But Rather About Silence Without Awkwardness
Have you ever experienced this? Chatting with an old friend on WeChat, chatting and chatting, you suddenly forget about it without replying.
It might just be that someone picked up the phone, went to the restroom, and when you came back, you forgot.
When you realize it, you're not worried at all, and you don't feel guilty, because there's enough trust between the two of you.
The other person won't suspect you've been ignoring them; you don't need to be careful when interacting, fearing misunderstandings.
On the contrary, if you're chatting with a stranger, you either don't feel like talking or you're always trying to come up with topics.
How might this make him/her feel? Is this right or wrong to do?
It makes you feel so exhausted, but the situation is still very awkward.
It feels the most comfortable being with an old friend,
You can tease each other, you can ignore your appearance, and you don't have to worry about hurting his/her fragile heart unintentionally.
You can understand what he/she says, and he/she won't be upset or awkward.
Even if you haven't been in touch for a long time, he/she will never forget him/her.
How many genuine friends do you have on your WeChat and?
When you disappear for a month, how many people will ask you what's wrong?
True friends don't require words, and they don't cause awkwardness,
The two of you can sit together drinking coffee, and neither of you wants to talk, so you both quietly enjoy the moment.
No one feels uncomfortable or awkward; when you want to say something, I'll listen, and if you don't want to say anything, you can just stare blankly.
This comfortable and relaxed relationship doesn't require flattery, and you don't need to force yourself to listen to topics you're not interested in; everything should be simple and natural.
Once, at a gathering, a classmate shared her experience, but it was completely irrelevant to the people around her.
That feeling of emptiness, I still remember it to this day,
You don't want to listen, but you're afraid of being impolite; everyone remains silent,
If you notice that everyone is not interested, stopping the topic in a timely manner is also considerate,
Back then there were no mobile phones; if there were, I'm sure some people would be lowering their heads to scroll,
Good relationships don't require force, and there's no awkwardness,
Everything feels so comfortable and natural,
If you have friends like this, please cherish them,
Thank you for reading, using different perspectives to view the world, absorbing positive energy, and every word you read will not be wasted; you can live a better life than you imagined!
