You only reach that level, then you'll have corresponding circles.
1Sometimes, like having depression, you'll suddenly feel bad. Occasionally like having autism, you'll suddenly not want to talk.
2Finally, I believed that every road you came across had its own reason for traveling it, and every road you continued to travel had its own direction it had to choose.
3Don't care too much about people who are bad to you; no one has an obligation to be good to you. Similarly, being good to others doesn't mean they’ll treat you the same way. Love your people, and you can return the love more deeply. Don't care about those who don't love you; never waste a single second on them. If you want to move someone who doesn't love you with your love, you’ll only end up hurting yourself. Therefore, cherish those who are good to you; don't force a love with no ending.
4It wasn't until reality slapped you in the face that you realized how hypocritical society is; it wasn't until so-called friends wounded you to nothing that you realized how wary people’s hearts can be.
5Your personality is lazy, your interests are playing, your specialties are eating, your skills are sleeping. Your current situation: poor and broke, familiar but unable to be a couple, always hungry, can't fall asleep.
6You need to learn to weigh the pros and cons, learn to give up some things, then you might get something in return.
7Learn to look down on things, it's the best protection for yourself. We often face dilemmas of not choosing or not knowing how to choose. A turn, a memory, time flows like a flowing stream in front, so clear, so open and serene. But the passage of time is too fast, we can’t catch up with the flowing footsteps, and when we look back, we’ll find that time gradually grows old, and our hearts are always lost in a deep melancholy and bleakness.
8Don’t care too much about some people, the more you care, the more humble you become. Starting now, be smarter and don’t ask others whether they want you or not, whether they love you or not. If someone wants to think you are beautiful or love you, they will say it to you. But if you say it to them, they will be proud and aloof. Don’t over-care about some people and some things. Let it be natural. In this world, often in the things we care most about, we are the least valuable.
9Sometimes we care too much about the voices around us, we make decisions indecisively, our actions are hesitant, and eventually we get tired of our minds and spirits. Even if you do well, someone will criticize you; even if you are a mess, you can still hear praise. Don’t get stuck in the judgment of others, don’t fall into the eyes of others, don’t twist yourself to please the world. The only one who can save you is yourself.
10I met so many people, but why am I still the one who seems like a passerby, yet occupies such an important position in my heart.
11Your personality is lazy, your interests are playing, your specialties are eating, your skills are sleeping. Your current situation: poor and broke, familiar but unable to be a couple, always hungry, can't fall asleep.
12A truly strong person will not spend too much thought on pleasing or conforming to others. So-called circles and resources are just derivatives. The most important thing is to improve your inner skills. Only when you have cultivated yourself well will others come to attach themselves. You are a wisteria, and the phoenix will come to rest; you are the sea, and all rivers will return to it. You can only reach that level, then you will have corresponding circles, not the other way around!
13Most missed opportunities are caused by not persisting, not working hard, not holding on, and then hypnotizing yourself to say everything is fate.
14Everyone has someone in their heart, who is no longer a lover, and never a friend. Time passes, regardless of whether you like them or not, you will always habitually remember you, and hope that everything is fine for you.
15Take a deep breath, forget the unpleasant past, listen to music, look at the scenery, say what you want to say, do what you can do, go where you want to go, see who you want to see.
