Growing Up is a Dilemma Between Compromise and Persistence
Make friends without concerning yourself with high or low status.
Don't fawn on the wealthy, and don't look down on the poor.
What's valued is sincerity, and scorn is insincere flattery! Like those who give you their heart, leave those who play with yours. Give a like to those who share your heart, but leave those who manipulate yours!
Those who share your heart will be with you for a lifetime; those who play with your heart will say goodbye in turn!
Clear out the trash in your heart regularly,
Delete unpleasant people and things from your memory,
Format yourself to create storage space,
If your heart is clear, there will be no rainy days in life,
You are the author of your own life,
Why write a script filled with misery?
Love's purification is compassion, and compassion harmonizes with all;
Love's elevation is wisdom, and wisdom discerns right from wrong.
Ordinary people are not scary, the scary thing is being mediocre without ever striving,
Ultimately, you end up with a wasted life, and then comfort yourself that it's just ordinary.
Some things you don't do now, you'll never do. Some say, 'I'm afraid to see the result,' but you have the courage to go through that process – what's so scary about a small result? Some say, 'I'm afraid the process will be painful,' but how can you assume the outcome will be unexpected before you see the result? Retreat is a regret that can haunt you for life! An incomplete life is one without active choices. A shallow youth is not profound without courage.
When interacting with others, we should have attitudes of compatibility, tolerance, and forgiveness. Every person's personality has parts that are difficult to accept; learn to treat them dialectically, as long as they don't violate your dignity and bottom line, there's no need to be too critical. Like appreciating a rose, why judge the thorns?
