A Classic Father-Son Dialogue! Worth Watching Hundreds of Times, Share It!

1.

A father and son encountered a ragged beggar at a corner.

Son: Dad, he's a beggar.

Father: Yes, he's very poor.

Son: He looks so pitiful, can we help him?

Father: Study hard, and you can change people like him.

The son felt a weight he'd never experienced before – it was responsibility, it was pride, he realized that studying wasn't just for himself, but also for helping others.

Reflection: If your child sees a beggar, what would you say? Would you say 'Study hard, and you won't end up like him'?

Different perspectives give different education, the former will instill responsibility in the child, the latter will depress the child.

2.

A 2-year-old son tripped over a stone and cried.

Father: What's wrong, baby?

Son cried, pointing at the stone, tears streaming down his face.

Father: Didn't you step on the stone and fall?

The son nodded.

Father: Don't cry, let's rub the stone to make it better, it's hurting too.

The son stopped crying, touched the stone, as if comforting a small animal, moving gently.

From then on, he knew even a stone could hurt, he understood kindness and tolerance.

Reflection: Most parents would say 'Don't cry, I'll fix it for you', then kick the stone away, which seems reasonable, but actually can make children form a victim mentality, thus shirking responsibility.

3.

A father and son passed each other on the way home from work.

Son: I want to eat jian bing (savory crepe) later.

Father: Is jian bing delicious?

Son: It's delicious, especially with one egg.

Father: What if there were two eggs?

Son: It would be even more delicious.

Father: What about three eggs?

Son: It would be even more delicious.

Father: Four eggs?

Son: It would be even more more delicious.

Father: Five eggs?

Son: It would be even more more more delicious.

Father: Six eggs?

Son: It would be even more more more more delicious.

Father: Seven eggs?

Son: It would be even more more more more more delicious, haha, I'm going to be full.

Unknowingly, their footsteps slowed down, hearing the last part, he couldn't help but laugh.

It's simple to be happy.

Reflection: Use your heart to feel your child's happiness, don't judge him, and follow his thoughts – what he wants is actually very simple.

It's better to drain than to block, learning is the same, games are also the same.

4.

In early autumn, a father and son passed by a river.

Son: Dad, I want to swim.

Father: You can, but we need to go home and change clothes first, otherwise our clothes will get wet.

Son: Then let's go home and change clothes.

They returned home and changed clothes.

Father: Do you feel a little cold? It's getting cooler.

Son: I am a little cold, the weather is changing.

Father: Then do you still want to swim? I'm afraid of getting cold.

Son: Then let's not do it, let's go when it's hot later.

After that, the child learned to think before acting, he couldn't just do something without thinking.

Reflection: The more a child prohibits him from doing something, the more he wants to do it, because their self-consciousness is beginning to germinate.

It's better to drain than to block, learning is the same, games are also the same.

5.

A rich father and his son.

Son: Dad, do you have money?

Father: Yes, I have a lot of money, I don't want to lie to you.

Son: Then I'm your son, do I also have a lot of money?

Father: This is my money, not yours.

Son: Then why can I still spend your money, you still buy toys and clothes for me, you'll buy me whatever I want?

Father: Until you can earn your own money, I'm taking care of you; when you're independent, you can earn your own money, it doesn't matter how much you earn or don't earn, just like my money isn't yours either.

The son finally understood that his father's money wasn't free, wanting money requires him to earn it.