The lovers’ 'love letters' witnessed your love and also evoked sadness.
You pay attention to me, I accompany you to love,Written by: Xuan XiaoLei, You Name Mo Yang
It's a time without love letters. There are no familiar handwriting, no long but full of expectation waits and watches, no exciting receiving moments.
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Love letters in this era have become network text, quietly lying in your mailbox, and more content lies in your chat records.
When you start to fall in love, your fragmented love letters begin to be written. Chat records become more and more daily, and your love words are said many.
If these chat records are not deleted, they will record your entire love process. If you break up later, your chat records become sad love letters.
If you go back to look at the chat records, you will see the initial heat, the initial love, the initial sweetness, and the initial thoughts of him about you, his considerate and meticulous care for you.
You can also see his sincerity, his timely reporting, his knowing where he is and with whom he is together.
He's always concerned about whether you've eaten, whether you're warm, whether you're sleeping well, whether you're tired at work, whether you miss him.
Looking back at those chat records, you'll find that your love is as deep as the sea, as if you'll never separate for a lifetime. Your way of love is also like a textbook-perfect way.
It's as if you are each other's indispensable existence, you will definitely not marry him or her, you will not give her without her.
It's as if you're the other person you're looking for in this world.
Back then, you didn't doubt that your love would last forever.However, later everything gradually changed, your chat records gradually became less, care became less, gentleness became less.
Reporting became questioning, questioning became arguing. Later, one person speaks and the other person might take a long time to reply, or not reply at all.
You become no longer important to each other, or you don't want to talk to him anymore…
If you break up after falling in love, if you look back at those chat records, you might cry like a rainstorm. You'll find that you were from no talking to no talking, and eventually had nothing to say.
By the time you've reached a stage where you can't say a word to each other, you're probably tired, you don't want to argue, or you don't want to explain anymore.
You might not even know why you've become like this, sometimes it might not be someone's fault, and the person who's been hurt also becomes cold gradually.
So,The chat records have turned from two people's back-and-forth into one person's long rambling. Later, that long rambling person stopped, and this relationship stopped too.
The chat dates used to be every time, every moment, now they've become later with no contact, from initial intensity to final coldness and silence.
This is probably a state that many love affairs have. You can delete those past love letters with a click, don't have to cry like before when you see him's notes.Your dialogue box becomes so simple and empty, sometimes because you don't want to see that person anymore, so you quickly block him. You don't even have a dialogue box anymore, it's like you never knew him.
Love is probably the fastest thing in this world to change. Sometimes, when you look back, it feels so sorrowful.
Someone you once deeply loved, why eventually becomes so disgusted with each other, or even hates each other. Or, eventually, you just feel nothing, and you don't want to say anything anymore.
What did we do? Did we let our love turn from initial sweetness to final bitterness?
And those chat records, when looked back on, are they heart-piercing, or do they just feel like a fake?
In short,If you've loved deeply, looking back at those chat records, you'll probably feel unbearable, this is probably why people who deeply love each other eventually block each other.
After love, you hurt each other, those chat records become a pain. So delete them, just like deleting the emotions you put into them, thinking that way you can start over, not so painful.
However, over time, you find that he left a deep imprint on his life, something that can't be erased with letters, words, or photos.
Only with this complex emotion, let it fade or be forgotten by time.