Starting Tomorrow, I'll Be an Ordinary Person: Navigating the Workplace, Dating, and a Big Bed
We all live in the sewers, but we still look up at the stars.
Starting tomorrow, I'll read, chop wood, and feed horses. Um… no wood, no horses, okay, starting tomorrow, I'll read.
The day that hasn't died says it's still dying; the day that's already died says it's not quite gone.
In reality, many moments of life often make you feel like you're just not dead, but it can't be considered alive.
Sometimes, because of the existence of a certain person in this world, I feel like I'm alive, truly and vividly alive, and I want to become a better self for him.
That feeling is good, but it's also bad.
I hate my life being framed by one person, but who can really frame anyone? You originally just wanted an embrace, but accidentally got a kiss. At that time, you realize you need a bed, a house, and a certificate. When you break up, you find that you originally just needed an embrace.
We are all too timid. We dare not be warlords in the Republic of China, we dare not rise up during troubled times, and we dare not say 'I love you' during prosperous times.
I actually don't believe in love. Loyalty and responsibility are nothing more than not being tempted. People are actually the most unbearable to temptation. As for serious feelings, there is no truly meaningful heartbreak. You're dumped by Wang YiBo, then you catch Wang BaoQiang—you'll naturally feel pain, it's just a misalignment of colors. Otherwise, let's try reversing the order!
Life is most important is the appearance order, just like the Gaokao, we are doing the same exam, but tomorrow, we are each other's strangers.
At that time, we won't believe that doing more than one right answer can meet you with another group of people,
I remember when I was in college, my teacher told us, 'When I was your age, my father asked me, 'How many good friends do you have?' I was confident and said, 'More than ten.' My father smiled and said, 'Wait until I'm your age, it won't be more than two.'
He secretly mocked his father, thinking this old man had lived a terrible life. How could he only have two friends? Later, he became a father, experienced friends' betrayal, love's hurt, and death—then he gradually understood his father's words.
And at that time, I also secretly mocked my teacher, while thinking, while writing the names of my good friends on the paper, writing and counting, I wrote more than ten, I was sure, these people will not leave me, will not hurt me, even if one day we are each other's strangers, they are my lifelong friends,
When I graduated sixth year, I was tidying up my room and saw the yellowed paper. Many people on the paper are no longer in touch. Some went to other cities, some became increasingly different in terms of values, making it hard to get along, and some didn't even remember their faces. Of course, I also made new friends.
There's a saying: 'Friends don't need to be many, two is enough. One can lend you money, and the other can cry for you at your funeral.'
said, 'Everyone is lonely.'
Twenty-four hours a day, 8 hours sleeping, 8 hours working, the remaining 8 hours, you should learn how to face loneliness when your friends have no time to hang out with you. After all, companionship is temporary, and loneliness is the normal state of life.
There are so many people, but we just walked through a section of the road, why bother to remember it longer than the experience? In the end, those unwavering affections are all defeated by those who truly understand you.
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