Don't Publicize Your Struggles; A Pretentious Appearance Isn't Beautiful
Life is a journey, and along the way, there's a period that makes you believe that life can only be shaped by yourself. Relying on others is our instinct, but there is no one in this world who can always rely on.
If anyone could always rely on, they wouldn't grow. This is a universal principle for all living beings in this world. Like the flowers in a greenhouse, they are weak and beautiful, but they depend on an artificial environment. Once that environment disappears, their lives cannot withstand the real world.
Life is inherently fragile. If there is a permanent safe harbor, the lifeboats will never sail far. Although we receive protection, our daily lives will always be the same.
Relying on parents, they will age; relying on a partner, he will be burdened; relying on children, they also have their own lives. As adults, at some point in our lives, we will understand that we need to rely on ourselves. But this moment shouldn't come too late.
For children, parents are the greatest protection, but they will eventually age. One day, a mother's arms will no longer be able to completely embrace you, and one day, a father's strength will no longer be able to lift you onto his shoulder. They will gradually age, and sometimes faster than your growth.
Life's other half will always be someone who is ahead of you, and the burdens of life cannot be borne by one person alone. Your children will grow up, but they will eventually have their own lives, which is a journey of gradual separation.
Life ultimately depends on ourselves. Some people understand this early on, while others only realize it after a long journey. This understanding is painful, but we shouldn't reject clarity because of pain.
Things you can handle yourself shouldn't be advertised. Everyone has their own difficulties, and you're not that important. Maybe, for you, a major problem is just a minor annoyance for others.
Life shouldn't be lamented. You're not living for anyone else's eyes, and a pretentious appearance isn't beautiful. Don't repeatedly bring out your sorrows and wounds to show others. You're not living for others' comfort, and sweetness won't be enjoyed if others don't share it. So, just live well, and it's enough.
Don't bring out the small hardships of life to show to everyone, just like showing the difficulty of cutting your finger while cooking for others. For real people, these really don't matter.
Everyone's life is their own. Others just come to look at it out of boredom. So, don't disrupt your own pace because of others. No one will ever treat you like a child again, except your parents. So, your pretentious appearance isn't beautiful.
Conclusion:
Things you can handle yourself shouldn't be advertised. Everyone has their own difficulties, and their own sweetness. All of our lives are not compatible.
You may encounter big waves in your life, but from others' perspective, they are either a wonderful story or a mundane one. You, on the other hand, aren't acting for an audience, so you have to put on a performance.
There's no passing of life's challenges, only through experiencing and overcoming them can you grow step by step, and become strong enough to weather future storms.
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