How Much Pressure Do Those Two Sons Face?! This Dad's Sharp Retorts Are Refreshingly Satisfying
Some people jokingly say: the most moving love words are not 'I love you', but 'You've lost weight!'
Conversely, girls are most afraid of others saying they've gotten fat. There's even a guide specifically used to rebut people who say they've gotten fat, such as: 'So what if you ate your rice?'
Or, 'Being thin is fine, you can just lose weight.' Unlike you, some people even need to get plastic surgery.
Such retort words are truly satisfying. Some people like to talk about others' misfortunes the moment they meet someone, such as when someone is fat, besides being fat, the parents of the two sons are also worried about what others say, with an expression as if they want to share the burden for others. In fact, it's just a matter of watching the show.
Xiao Meng's family has two treasures – the big brother is in kindergarten, and both boys are. Since the couple is raising two children, the mom doesn't have time to pick up and drop off the children, Xiao Meng's dad takes Xiao Meng brother to find a kindergarten near his company every day to pick him up and drop him off.
However, Xiao Meng's dad has been very frustrated lately. Why? After the second son was born, colleagues would chat and say: 'Oh, the two sons are under so much pressure! They'll need a lot of money for buying a house and getting a wife.'
One colleague, whose family has two daughters, would say this and then boast about her two daughters, who will have it easier in the future and won't have to be like her in-laws.
This time, Xiao Meng's dad couldn't stand it and directly countered: 'The two sons don't have that much pressure. Why ask me how he's going to date girls? Maybe there will be many girls who will offer a high dowry and want to marry us!'
After Xiao Meng's dad said this, the colleague became silent and didn't speak anymore.
The two sons may have some pressure, but if you think about it carefully, heaven has its own plan. The two sons may be preparing for a camper, but the two sons will definitely get jobs and work when they grow up, and they will be able to earn money themselves to marry a wife in the future, so there's no need to worry about having more children or the children being under pressure, the key is to educate the children well.
A family with two sons, how should they educate the children?
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is very important. Many families now have brothers who are grown up and don't get along well, they all want to take money from their elders, and they always feel that their elders are partial to them, which makes their elders sad.
Xiao Mei's family has two sons like this, and they even argue over three points at the entrance. Now the two brothers and the mother-in-law are not talking to each other, and grown-up brothers who grew up together are arguing.
People often say that when a family is in trouble, everyone will laugh at them. Therefore, the two sons in the family must teach the children to be friendly and respectful to their brothers and sisters, and even in the future when their parents are gone, the two brothers can still get along harmoniously and help each other.
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Parents can prepare a house, prepare a wedding gift, and prepare a wedding for their children, but parents are not just children's ATMs. When you give your children everything and can't spare anything, you are setting a wrong value for them. Children think that everything their parents give them is naturally due to them.
When you have children, you should tell them to be self-reliant and independent, this is the true meaning of a man, filial to parents, and care for children, and also set a good example for the children, so that the children can establish a correct value system.
