I Gradually Realized: Many Things Can Only Be Experienced Once

You can understand,

You're chatting with someone, I understand too,

Once you're done chatting, you delete all the messages,

I still understand,

But what if one day,

I disappear from your world,

Then please understand me too.

I gradually realized,

Being too attached to someone can hurt yourself;

I gradually realized,

Many loves are met but not sought,

I gradually realized,

Many things can only be possessed once;

Letting go also means losing;

I gradually realized,

The person you care about the most,

Is often the one who makes you cry the most;

I gradually realized,

Sincere feelings don't need to be rewarded;

The higher you expect something to be, the more you lose;

The more you give in a love, the more tired you get;

The longer you wait for someone, the more pain you feel;

Remember, there are no insurmountable obstacles in life,

And there are no people you can't live without in life.

If you aren't cherished, if you're no longer important,

Learn to gracefully turn and walk away.

You can cry, you can feel sorry, but you can't be despairing;

Today's tears will be tomorrow's growth;

Today's scars will be tomorrow's strength.

Once: I was wrong,

Only caring about those who care about me,

Now, I understand,

From now on, I will only care about those who care about me.

If one day I lose everything,

Will anyone stand by my side and say to me:

'It's okay, I'm here for you?'

Will it be a brother, a friend, or a lover?

The happiness on your face others can see,

But the pain in your heart no one can feel;

When you're truly angry,

It's not about crying or making a fuss,

It's just a person quietly staying silent;

I won't ask, I won't bring it up,

If you're sad, you'll just walk away alone;

I won't argue, I won't make a scene,

If you're hurting, you'll use silence instead;

Sometimes, valuing others too much leads to your own nothingness;